A fucked up situation involving my "sister" by live-in bf and weed

Okay known the girl since we were 13. She is like my sister so even though she can drive me NUTS I LOVE her...anyways....
Her boyfriend...he's nice. Or at least I used to think. He's kinda a meat head but sweet to her n stuff.

One time he did something weird... jess n i went to a bar just us to...to hear music... and he showed up a half hour after us and was hiding at a table watching us...got mad cause we were TALKING to guys...and we were NOT fliriting... being friendly, that's it....

anyways....He has a keg in his fridge in the basement and various bottles there- one weekend WHEN I WASNT EVEN THERE someone stole a bunch of bottles so now she's not allowed friends over..... and esp. not me cause he saw me drunk a lot (i dont drink anymore but one night in over 9 weeks...and jess has told him that and how good im doing...and how good SHE'S doing too...we used to blaze alllll the time.... now its not so much at all....)..... and he doesnt like me cause im a "pothead" and he DRINKS but HATES potheads. (yet he's weird n bought her a bong, wtf).....

anyways made her promise she'd only smoke every now and then at night before bed.... i hadnt seen the girl in a month... we smoked 3 bowls, he found out....freaked out that she lied to him about not smoking unless it was night....

and is breaking up with her!!!

yet it's okay for him to drink every night and jess hardly ever smokes anymore.... wtf... what harm was done? jess has two kids and she used to smoke around the youngest (4 now) but she TOTALLY stopped smoking if they are even home..... she's made so much progress


and now he's threatening to break up with her because we smoked a couple bowls.... it's ridiculous and irrational....

But you know.... i doubt it will last....

It's just another way he can show "he's the boss" and "in control"

Jess, sweetie... if you read this.... im sorry if the truth hurts.

and i really hope you do stay here tonight...we'll smoke n laugh at movies.

 

and no one cares or can give me any insight.

this hurts me and i dont think its brian.

when brian (tns) reads tomorrow i should get a reply...

someone?

 

The boyfriend's a tool, what else can I say.

 

let him leave...fuck it...its not worth having an insanely jealous bastard around...

 

I agree.

But try telling her that.

You know?

She looooooooves him.

and maybe he can change... i do see some good in him but he's being ridiculous and she sees it... she does... but she looooooves him.

its bullshit.

 

smack her in the head and tell her to toss the moron

 

Then smack him in the head and tell him to toss the salad.

 

good riddance.

 

If he's so high and mighty let him leave.

He's just a boyfriend not her father for fucks sake...

 

I know right? And with that attitude, a dime a dozen.

 

kill em.

 

That goes well with your signature

 

I want to!
but homegirl needs love
and she cant see
ill do what i can

 

i just cant believe...
he can do what he wants right?
and yeah when we drank n smoked a lot..fine say shit.
but we RARELY do shit
n he had the nerve to control her.
its fucked.
im looking out for my girl and gonna message him on myspace tonight..
NICELY... mature words... but im gonna tell him what i think in a helpful way.

though i think he's an asshole.