Would you quit smoking weed if your new bf/gf wanted you to?

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  1. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    No.. and personally i'd find it hard to work in a relationship with someone who doesnt smoke
     
  2. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    ^i feel the same way.but me and my boyfriend both do so noproblems there :)



    but no, if someone couldn't accept me for who i am then we wouldn't be dating.
     
  3. Vapemaster

    Vapemaster Captain of a sinking ship

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    Fuck no. My buddy (he doesn't blaze) made his girlfriend quit and he gets super pissed if he finds out she does. At a party her and a couple of her girlfriends sneaked off to smoke a joint without him knowing and when they came back he could apparantly smell it and he flipped out and peaced it. If someone tells me I can't blaze they can fuck off.
     
  4. XBloodyNailPolishX

    XBloodyNailPolishX Forgetful Philosopher

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    ^ wow, what a loser. Fuck that guy. what an ignorant mindset.
     
  5. Tricko

    Tricko Member

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    No way!
     
  6. i0-techno

    i0-techno The Magnificent Dope

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    Now what sense does that make?
     
  7. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Which is more important the weed or the woman?

    (Does a man who would choose the weed deserve the woman? Shouldn't everyone mean more to their partner than MJ? She may be wrong, but its still important to her, which is more important to YOU, her happiness or herb?)

    It sounds like a moment in the relationship to learn about each other.

    We know that she is not looking at him as he is, but she sees him as she thinks he can become (with her help). Is that the kind of woman you want to be with?

    That ultimatum sounds like a good time to learn about each other and make some decisions.
     
  8. Ducky

    Ducky Member

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    I really doubt it. If they try to change me, then they're obviously not the sort of person I want to be with. Though there are possibilities for exceptions.
     
  9. WoodstockChild

    WoodstockChild Intrepid Traveler!

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    Two words:

    FUCK NO.

    I wouldn't date someone who wanted me to be anything but exactly who I am.
     
  10. Shadowprophet

    Shadowprophet Member

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    A lot of times when someone in a relationship wants someone to quit. it is just a simple test to see what is more important to that person, my wife wanted me to quit when we got together. when she saw I was willing to do that for her, she became okay with me smoking it.

    im not saying that would be the case for everyone though

    I think weed is great I love it. but relationships are sometimes about sacrifice.

    it may be about weed, or something else. but almost everyone in a relationship will be tested by the other at some point.
     
  11. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    i can't remember if i already replied to this thread or not but

    i'd have to say idk because thats how me and my boyfriend first were... he smoked and i didn't. but he didn't start smokeing until after we were together, mind you. buthe was like no its nice its nice try it so i did and i was like haha yay

    so i'm glad i wasn't super on him about it because there have been some great experiences from it
     
  12. imaginepeace

    imaginepeace Livin' the Dream

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    Im so glad I dont have this problem.
    If I did I would be honest, but I wouldnt do it before I was going to be around them, or if they were there. To be respectful.
     
  13. Smoking420Buddha

    Smoking420Buddha Member

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    Your friend iz obviously putting the pussy on the petistule lol

    And FUCK NO! if she cant accept me for me than FUCK her.
     
  14. High_Times_w_Kumar

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  15. Just a daily toke

    Just a daily toke Senior Member

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    fuck no, id be like bitch hit this bowl
     
  16. nesta

    nesta Banned

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    definitely not.

    drinking i would try to give up if they asked me to, though.

    hell, i'm already trying. just not very hard.
     
  17. sourdiesel06

    sourdiesel06 Member

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    If I was really into her I might consider it, but I've said time and time again that I will never get involved with a girl who doesn't toke so I don't think I'll ever have to make that decision.
     
  18. burnabowl

    burnabowl Dancing Tree

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    no...no, man...shit no, man. I'm always striving to redefine marriage with my wife. I think it's fucked up that the status quo requires so much sacrifice from...mostly the guy, but girls, too. No, we are individuals first. The standard for morality is for the individual, to be self-actualized and indepedent. Being in a r'ship is a time to share the independence, to contrast and complement each other, not to shred away valued parts of the personality to transform into some sorta societal ideal.

    My wife knows that the weed I smoke is a mental and spiritual lubricant, and it helps me to empathize with the kids and to let my mind go when I feel like the kids are just extra limbs attached to me. That's one of my many purposes in smokin weed. She would never ask me to quit, but if she did I'd tell her to fuck off.
     
  19. POVExdeath

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    I've had this issue come up before.

    Like 8 months ago I had an opportunity to date a friend of mine (a girl, of course, lol). She was the girl of my dreams in every way, I had even been in love with her earlier that year. The only thing that stood between us was weed. One of her old roommates smoked and got caught with it, so she's really paranoid because its illegal. I knew she wasn't going to smoke (ever) and she would probably eventually try to get me to quit. I haven't really spoken to her since.

    I'm a decent guy, but I'm never giving up smoking for a girl. The headaches that come with relationships just aren't worth it. Weed is also a big part of my life. Being asked to give up weed would be like being asked to give up driving, I just couldn't do it. Sure it'd be replaced with frequent sex, but my life would feel a little empty. I'd rather find someone who smokes weed, after all that's something we'd have in common and its something we could share.
     
  20. -beatnick

    -beatnick Senior Member

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    hell no, no one can convince me to stop smoking weed.

    the law has tried, my crazy russian dad, and many others.

    IT AINT HAPPENIN.

    not because of addiction or anything, but mary jane is the coolest female i know.
     

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