Help ! am i a lost cause?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Nikoli, May 15, 2008.

  1. Nikoli

    Nikoli Member

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    Well im 15 never had a GF and its not hard for me to talk to girls... but its like most of the girls i just dont want to talk to ( In school ). Also its hard for me to find things to talk to them about. Thats another big problem as well.. Im not afraid to i just dont know what to say. Back to saying that i dont want to talk to girls, Its like im too picky for my own good. Im not picky in a bad way.. just picky in their personality. So there i am i barely talk to girls and im a bit worried what i will do later in my life. I was figuring maybe i will find a more matured girl in college or on the job later on hopefully. Also i wouldnt consider myself bad looking but not the best.. I kinda look like owen wilson .
    Sorry if this is the wrong place to post it, but i figured it falls under relationships.
     
  2. hitsuzen

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    There's nothing wrong with that... some people are just late bloomers.
    I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18... for a lot of the same reasons, really.
    I know how frustrating it can be, but don't lose hope. :)
     
  3. Vana

    Vana Member

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    Oh look. Another youngin' freaking cuz they haven't found someone yet. Oi.

    Slow down. Meet the right person.
     
  4. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    youre -15!!!- seriously, theres no way in hell youre a lost cause. i started dating my first boyfriend when i was 16, yeesh, calm down. worry if youre over 20 and have never had a relationship (yet want to have on)
     
  5. myself

    myself just me

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    You're really so young - I didn't have BF at 15... I don't think you should worry about this... and it's normal to be picky about girls - of course there's no way you could like them all. Maybe this is truly the problem - there's no girl you truly like at school. Just wait one or two more years or so, maybe you'll find a nice girl you're really attracted to. At 15 I used to hang out with other girls and they had no BF either... just hang out with other boys and play football or something - that's what the boys did. As for their talking to girls, they used to chase them about the class, halls, throw snow at them in winter and annoy them. Lol.
     

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