I need some advice/cheering up.

we weren't really fuck buddies. we really were more like in a relationship. he called me "his girl" and we acted like we were in a relationship, but he really wasn't sure if he wanted to make it official or not, because he didn't know if he was ready for it or not, and i was fine with that. but he even told me before we left school that he wants to see me over the summer and he wants it to work and it got my hopes up and now he just crushed me saying it's not gonna work.

 

That happens now. The only time I have talked to him since school ended was twice, and it was because I got ahold of him. Shit, you really know what's going on, you must be in the same situation.

 

At the end of my freshman year of college, the girl and i decided to keep the romance alive during the summer. I went to visit her for a week in june, she came out for a week in july, it was perfect. All the magic seemed to remain all summer until i got back and realized that she had been pulling the wool over my eyes.

As much as it sucks, this could actually be better for the 2 of you in the long run. And if not I hear nate is hung like a giant

 

^sorry to hear that happened to ya..
relationships have only come out bad for me since i've dated.

i'm hoping that this all works out for me somehow, and yeah maybe this will be better for the both of us. i'm trying to stick true to "everything happens for a reason"

 

The first sentence is true, or he could just be keeping you on the side as a fall back girl after he gets back and cant go back to his ex.
towards the second sentence; first off, I LMFAO. second, where in the world did that convo come up amogst ya'll?, and third, isnt nate like 12?! hahaha no.. i think it was 16.. Nate, youre cool as shit, but come on that was funny!!

 

Just try not to sweat it, you're 19. Focus on other things.

 

You're right. I shouldn't sweat it. I need to be focusing on stuff that REALLY matters right now. I can't let this get to me, but it's so hard! lol

 

It shouldn't be hard to focus your energy away from a guy who obviously doesn't care about you in the same way you care about him. That's not to say he doesn't care about you at all, but he obviously wants something different than what you want.

He may be a good guy, but the relationship isn't what you want it to be or what you thought it was, and it's not worth your time to keep worrying about it. If you guys start back up again when school starts, he's gonna hurt you again. By the sound of it, he's just breaking it off with you so he has nothing holding him back from being with other girls, and hoping you'll be waiting for him when he decides he's done having fun, which is some bullshit. Find someone who's worth your time and who will appreciate you.

 

ugh, man, you're exactly right. it's just so hard for me to realize this because he seemed like he cared so much about me, and he even told me he cared for me SO much and all that shit. it's hard to believe that he'd act like this.

whatever, i'm done sulking, i guess i gotta move on.
i'm not gonna let this ruin my summer.

 

^I agree. If things dont work out with you and, maybe I'm right here in Jersey. lol, but serously, I wish the best of luck with your current relationship, but try not to worry about it too much, they are other fish in the sea.

 

actions speak louder than words my dear friend.

You can always come to colorado for the summer. I can get you a job and I've got a spare bedroom.

 

^aww man.. that would be a sweet getaway.

 

the only problem is when many people take getaways to Colorado they become permanent stays

 

I'm actually really happy with my status right now. I say these things because I have been there before.

Hope my talk helped.

Peace.

 

I'm sure that's true. Colorado is a beautiful state, so I hear, I've never been there.
I don't know about all that snow though... I hate snow.

 

Yes it helped alot, actually. Thanks!

 

Kinda hard to believe it came from a 17 year old dude. Isn't it?

 

That's not necessarily a problem though. It's just as good a place as any, until you compare it to the greatest place in the world........Georgia

 

rofl.. yeah I guess it is. Didn't know you were 17, though. It says you were 21.

 

Yeah...I signed up stoned and didn't notice 1. That my name is messed up, and 2 i typed the wrong year.