So when a guy says...

i only know one person who uses the phrase "my girl" and he seems to use it in place of her name just so people can realize that he actually has a dumb bitch who is willing to live with him...

i kind of assumed it was some sort of ghetto slang judging by the way he normally talks and the way he uses this particular phrase, so if that is true then it certainly does imply possession and not really much else...

 

My girl,
my girl.
Don't lie to me..
Tell me where..
did you sleep..
last night?

 

he could just be protective?

 

I had someone tell me I was their little piece of crap...

 

That was my way of saying I love you.

 

Haha...
It makes my heart grow more than the quarter of an inch it is when you say that to me.. And I love you too, for I am your little piece of crap and you are my little shiny anus...

 

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So shall I start making our friendship bracelets out of my nose hair trimmings now or later.. I have green color and reddish-brownish, which color do you prefer...

 

I like both. I think you should start now. I've already been working on a leg hair picture frame to hold our tampon in the nose picture.

 

Haha, the debris on my teeth just stood up from the joy and happiness of this.. Leg hair picture frame...mmmm...I shall smell it and rub it on my face every day..l

 

Good thing I have soft leg hair!

 

I wonder if I can have some of your leg hair implanted on my face...

 

I don't see why not. When I was younger I took a nap with my dad and he hadn't shaved in a while. I woke up with my forehead hurting and I went to the bathroom to look in the mirror and one of his whiskers was implanted in my forehead. hahaha I was a unicorn for a few minutes before I pulled it out.

 

Haha.. Maybe if I sleep on it (well, I was planning on doing that anyways) it can happen, if I can dream it I can be it... And you can fall alseep on my ass and you can wake up and have a few hundred hairs on your face.. We'd own the streets...

 

Haha oh yeah! Hair is like splinters. Everytime I shave my dog I have to pull her hair out of my hands.

Oh ass hair on my face? I would be more famous than any celebrity!

 

Haha, do you ever have to cut dingleberries off of your dogs ass... When I had my old dog Murry I had to always cutt his hair because near his ass it would be hairy as hell and then he would poop and smear it all in his hair, I'd be out back wipping, washing his ass and then clipping the chunks out.. He'd always give me that look like, ah shit not again ... I use to tell him it happens to the best of us.. Yeah, I'm weird I talked to my dog...

Facial ass hair is probably going to sweep the nation here soon..

 

Yeah I've had to do that with Delaunay. I used to let her grow her hair out in the winter. I'm so glad my dog has hair instead of fur....she doesn't shed. Hell I shed more than my dog does. Anyways I would have to cut the dingleberries so I finally said fuck it! I shave her year round, and she gets to wear dog hoodies in the winter.

I still have to wipe her ass off sometimes. She gives me that how could you!?!? look. haha

 

Best to talk it out with him.

I call a lot of my friends 'my girl'. Best to find out what he means then for me to guess. Could be a term of affection.

Or it could mean every night he fails to sleep because thoughts of you race through his head. And every moment he dreams, he dreams of you.

Somewhere in between there maybe. I dunno.

 

"My" signifies an emotional attachment.

 

Agreed.

To the OP: There's a bond between you, and if you are doing everything you would in a relationship, well, then you are in a relationship. Maybe it's become one more on his terms than yours, and maybe you are not comfortable with it as it is. If so, you need to tell him how you feel. Otherwise, you are just going along and making yourself miserable with angst.

Get it out there in the open. Just don't do the passive-aggressive thing and say things like, "What are you thinking?" Hell, just tell him what you are feeling or thinking and start the conversation like that. Generally, guys hate the passive-aggressive approach that too many chicks use to start a conversation about what's on their mind. In general, guys are more direct than that. Just say it. Don't make him try to read your mind and then get pissed off when he can't. Anyway, good luck and I hope it works out for you either way.

Oh, and if you're only 16, geez, man, chances are this, too, will pass. You'll likely go through more relationships before you know one is "it." Try not to let things like this seem like life or death. I know that's how so many things feel when you are 16, but probably some day with some distance and perspective, you'll see that they are not.

"Love" in its many forms can be deceiving. Love as infatuation is something I regard as a temporary mental illness, albeit one that can be wonderful, beautiful, and maddening all at once. Once you get over it, if you still like the person and find you do not want to be without their company, then that's a person you can have a long-term relationship with. Maybe.

Take it easy and don't stress too much. Life is shorter than you realize. Enjoy it. Try to enjoy it with someone who appreciates you and whom you appreciate in return, and whose company you really enjoy. That kind of love is a lot more stable and sane and usually longer lasting than the mad rush and butterflies in your stomach kind.