Help. This person is literally impossible to break up with.

Ok so like this guy is great, he's nice and stuff but he's super immature and that really gets me angry because hes 15 years my senior.

Last night he woke me up at 2 am to ask me if I had any quarters for the phone and I said no I have no change, to which he was like can you go change these pennies for me? and I was like what?? I was sleeping!! Why can't you do that on your way to the phone? and he got all pissy and I even counted out some of the pennies into sections of 25 so the clerk wouldn't get angry at him and he threw them back in the jar!! what a fucking pisser!
I was like whatever I had 2 hours of sleep last night and you slept in until 1 pm so eff off and I went to sleep.

but thats just an example of his immaturaty. he just didn't want to exchange the pennies out of embarresment. So he thinks to wake me up to do it. He never cooks and he always waits until I get home from work to tackle anything so I can't relax.

However, I've tried leaving him so many times but I can't. And its not me, my weakness failed me once but since then he's been the one blockng doors physically. We get into an arguement and I want to avoid all the yelling so I get dressed to go for a walk or a coffee, anything to get me away from him and he'll immedietly block the door! I can't call the police or a friend because hte phone never has credit. I'm fucking fed up with this.

I want out.

but its almost impossible.
What do I do?

 

Do you have a place to go?Surely the guy will leave the house sometime.When he does,leave.Or when he has to go to the bathroom-get the hell out.Once you leave ,if he continues to bug you ,get help.These things can become dangerous,you know.No one has the right to hold someone against their will.Oh yes,I just re-read what you said---if you go to work,just don't come back.--(or do you really want to stay?)

 

yeah, this guy sounds like trouble if you ask me. I have a few friends who are kinda weird like that (will call late at night for really random things) and are very clingy. I suggest you END that shit asap dude. Just leave him, and dont say anything. Im sure you will be better off without him....and if he comes after you, its time to get a restraining order..

 

yea woman you gotta run or something

 

He wasn't very nice. If you keep on tolerating this kind of behavior from him, it would just go on and on. I suggest you get rid of him as soon as possible. I mean, c'mon, there are a lot more better guys who will not treat you like how he treats you. If you think you can't leave him, just think about how he will treat you in the following years. Your guy is a little psycho.

 

35 and acting like hes 12, you can do better than that. You have the right to do whatever you wan't, don't let some immature douchebag tell you otherwise.

 

Yes, and quite literally.

I suggest you get away as soon as possible, because this may just be the start. Is there anyone you can stay with? Any chance of moving back home or in with friends? GET HELP!!

 

ssooooo thanks everyone... I was kind of brainstorming and figured all these things out I guess I shouldn't just like immediately post a problem without thinking it thru huh? -_-;

but yea I have a feeling his visa extension won't go through anyways so I'm just going to let him leave. Even if the extention does go through I have a plan which would include staying at a hostel or possibly my friends- only he doesn't have much furniture so I would prefer the hostel since I stayed there before. Then I would just wait until he left. but I don't think it will have gone through simply because we've been through this before, I left him and he was being stupid so I called the cops and he has a record now anyways. He wasn't trying to harm me but he kept saying he was going to jump in the ocean and stuff so I was like "not on my watch!" lol.

the only thing is at the moment I don't quite have enough for a deposit on my own place, AND we just payed for a full month where we are now. either way it goes, in June I'm out of there. if not sooner.

 

I just watched your whole sig.

it's amazing lol.