okay, so my buddy and I were having a conversion and I we ended up arguing over who's right and who's wrong. So to try to be fair, I'm asking for your answer. What is your definition for the following words: Homosexual? Bisexual? Heterosexual? I'll let you know his and my definitions but first would like to know what you all think. thanks in advance!
Homosexual, Well its really two different things in guys, and its really early childhood training that does it, that 2-6 yr range Made by girls: Too tall too early and timid one attracts more daddy attention from the girls, freaked out by the daddy stare from half your classmates, gets bugged by girls until he gives the daddy stare (that smothering feeling) Has to train some girls his age not to grab his crotch, as they are programmed to bond with a daddy figure in whichever way works. Gets slightly less innocent attention from girls who are a couple years older but still same height because of that timidness, trains from now to flinch at girls his size or bigger. With both girls his age and slightly older, starts training to check girls eyes first to know which looks to watch out for, or when to respond to the daddy recognition. Programmed to check a girls eyes before anything else, sets off a physillogical response that gives an emotional buzz (something thats programmed into guys, getting a little dose of endorphins in response to a certain range of facial patterns in the girls; their dad look), gets addicted to that buzz. Trains to get responses from girls that give the daughter look, rather than sexy looks later on. Learns to run to the security of guys, starts imitating both the daughter and dad looks (as well as the other hundred or so looks from the girls) and using them on the guys Too short early on and figity, more like a son or baby brother to female classmates, gets mummy attention, similar to above, but trains on mum looks, with the same kind of physillogical repsonses The 2-6 yr range is not the only growth spurt, later on both the smaller and the taller may tend to average height. Made by boys: Timid, chubby and possibly taller, the guy most like a mum in the class, trains to get physical attention from classmates and on gestures to assure that contact. doesnt have to have anything to do with sexual attention Smaller, thinner, the guy most like a daughter figure, or little sister. Learns to get physical attention from classmates and learning gestures / altering voice to attract attention Again, that 2-6 yr range isnt the only growth spurt, body shapes and sizes can tend towards average by teens. Just think of it in terms of Spare Sons, Spare Fathers, Spare Daughters, Spare Mothers and thats gay. A guy can get more than one kind of attention a be a mixture of two, theres no fixed line. Bisexual; well a lot of guys have a daughter that looks like their wife, screws with their heads, they have a hard time sepearting naughty feelings for the wife with G-rated feelings for the daughter, plus they get hooked on the daughters dad look, start looking for it more in other women, hence look less at their bits, start seeing guys that are imitating the daughter look (us), thinks guys are checking him out more, gets him thinking more about guys....next stop is the carpark near the truckstop on highway 38 Hetero: well, unfortunately probably means you were rather average in that 2-6 yr range
Again- Care to cite your information? Besides, the original poster wasn't asking what determines one's sexuality. Homosexual- One who is attracted to emotionally and physically to people of the same sex almost completely exclusively. Bisexual- One who is attracted to both genders emotionally and physically. Heterosexual- Opposite of Homosexual.
No links, its all 100% experience. Matching all the different looks a girl or guy gives you especially in the first few seconds of meeting them with behaviours, and the changes in a girl or guys vocal pitch, volume and tempo in response to your voice and behaviours that follow that. You have to really pay attention to other gay guys, the eyes and voice of straight guys AND straight girls and try work out which looks mean what, and which looks you yourself are subconsciuosly imitating. Its what Gaydar is, human facial and voice recognition, something you get better at as you get older. As for the question, it was what is my definition of homosexuality. The answer I gave was an attempt at answering that. In my teens that answer was guys that prefer intimacy with guys instead of girls. Nowadays I know that exclusive gay pretty much only comes from that minority that got uncommon attention from kids their own age in that 2-6 year range, and I'm not talking sexual, Ones that got either dad like attention, little brother like attention, little sister like attention, or mum like attention from 'straight kids'. Not saying they were like a dad or mum or whatever, but they were more like a dad or mum compared to the other male kids their age. Fast forward to gay guys your own age, must be your own age, see if you can pick which ones are more like a universal dad, or a universal mum, a universal daughter or a son and watch which straight guys or girls they find it easier to bond with. Just as when you encounter a child that still believes in Santa and you go along with the story to protect that innocence, Parents and older people are keeping some very private matters from straight people until they have kids or work things out themselves. You need to see some of that before you get the full picture on gay. You'll start to work out some of it in your early 20s as you become more and more puzzled as to why some straight guys are so clueless about girls and some arent and why its the ones most clueless that still think being gay means wanting to do every guy when the others know better. More riddles? As I said, its all 100% experience, and the fact that everyone around you jumps to assumptions about sex when they here the word 'gay'. Thats how things keep hidden, even though they are in plain sight. Every part of gay hides a deep dark secret about Straight Male AND Straight Female sexuality
