is my girl having an orgasm

ive just in the last few days begun fooling around with my girlfriend. shes my first and im not sure if she is having a legit orgasm or just getting really close.

i start with a lot of foreplay, and i do a lot of things she likes, until she is really wet. then i start slowly working my way to her aria teasing her... anyway

she starts breathing fast and erratic, she starts grabbing random things the bed post the flood my arms... then she cant even kiss anymore and she just throws her head back and starts breathing really heavy and fast and makes little noises lol uhhs and ahhs..

sooo is that an orgasm or the step before it because im not 100 percent she and i havent asked her yet

 

Sounds like she may be chocking on something, or she may have a cramp in her neck. whetever have fun with her.

Peace

 

The best way to know if a girl is done is to ask.
Communincation is the key to good sex. (and if shes not having one and you stop shes probly really disapointed)

 

Sounds like it. Some girls scream, others moan, and others just make little noises. Ask her...

 

and some girls fake!!!!!!!!

not to scare you...

 

If she's having a real orgasm you will notice ballooning at the base of her vaginal barrel and spasmodic contractions.

Lots of other things also: sweat all over the body, elevated breathing, very fast heart rate (200 beats per mimute), dilated pupils, glassy eyes, and later after the orgasm -euphoria and strange feeling of bonding and love for each other.

 

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Also, if you are actually having sex, you will be able to feel that ballooning that GentleBen mentioned, or at least I have.

I agree, the best way to know is to ask.

 

I agree, the best way to know is to ask.
Communication is Key !!

 

It sounds like you're doing the right things! Just ask her if she's really getting off or faking. Sounds like she's having fun though.

 

Sounds like it. I had a girl that was incredibly loud in bed, but eventually would get the way you described- quiet, won't kiss, grabbing random shit... Then I would stop because I didn't even think she was having an orgasm, I thought she was getting tired or something, and then she would aways be like "C'mere" and kiss me for a long time.

It was a few months before one time she said it was the best orgasm she ever had and I was like "You had an orgasm?" and before then I was insecure because I thought she wasn't, she then informed me that she had one every time with me. I would have thought that she would have got louder when she was having it, but guess that's not always the case.

 

You won't have to ask her if she is having a real orgasm - take it from me you'll know !!

You'll freak out when those kegal muscles start to constrict around your penis (the pleasure is like nothing that you have ever experienced before) don't be alarmed just go with it and enjoy - you'll know what I mean when you reach that moment.

 

Easiest way to tell is to keep doing it while she does her bit, then if you feel her relax and her breathing is deeper and slower, she might quiet down, she's probably came and gone. Good job mate

 

Condoms are cheaper than guns true.

There's nothing like going bareback though the feeling is so much better.

Still the idea of getting an STI or STD ain't real hot so I guess you have a valid point.

Okomoto for the win.

http://www.okamotousa.com/htmls/fe_male.htm

 

If she is having fun and not complaining or unsatisfied, and you are having fun and are satisfied...does it really matter?

Your description of what she does during sex describes and orgasm. Usually when a woman fakes the big O she puts on a show, which usually includes loud moans, thrashing about, and is almost always exaggerated for what is happening.

So, pat yourself on the back, and keep enjoying the sex you have with your little lady.

 

Just a little tidbit, a girl won't orgasm every time, and she doesn't need to. sex can feel amazing without an orgasm so . yeah as long as you enjoy yourselves i'm sure she's loving it.

 

Sounds like me when I fake it...

 

lol i do that, im quite loud till i orgasm then go quiet, you can also tell since most girls get really hot during orgasm and spasm a bit, then calm down afterwards

 

I am really loud then I hold my breath and I normally comment that it was good if it was, so it sounds like she got off.