yo just little questions needing advice i suppose, dont even know if i'm really gonna post this, but i'm still kinda rolling from last night and i feel like typing my feelings because i'm all alone and quite bored, plus i feel sort of hung up about my girl situation. well yea so i was at this gathering of sorts last night, not a party, but yeah good get together with maybe like 20 people evenly split male female or maybe more girls, my head is sort of scattered right now so i can't recall exact details. but yeah so i whatever doing my thing not important, and I was talking to this girl that i sort of like, well alot shes way cool, she came over and sat with me on the couch, I saw she stepped on glass and so like i helped her get cleaned up and whatever just talked and tryed to get her mind off it. this girl is in a class of mine, ima senior in highschool, and yeah i'm really quiet in class most of the time and so is she, but i've been hanging out with her like every weekend for awhile i suppose and that is more my time to be myself and have fun. but yeah so I always get the feeling more and more like this girl really likes me and stuff, she was showing me her journal which had way cool designs in the leather and stuff, dunno and yeah we were just drawing pictures like each person takes turns adding a new thing you know, and talking about just whatever lots of stuff because there was alot of people and we are both more of the shy chiller type that likes to just chill i suppose, and then the molly kicked in way hard and the drum circle started and so i was having such a blast and she seemed sort of timid at first but then towards the end of the night i saw she started to have alot of fun and stuff. but yeah anyway parrellel with hanging with this girl #1 enters this girl #2 that I have been really really hung up on since like winter, its pretty ridiculous but honestly she's the coolest girl i have ever met, she's much more like yeah like not shy, and there are a ton of reasons why we fit together, I can relate a whole bunch to her. I hang with her a bunch too, both of the girls at the same time alot actually cuz they are friends, but yeah I am sort of shy around her because I can't tell if she likes me back the way I like her. There are times when i'm like totally positive that she does, and then like an hour later it will be like she doesn't care at all, but i think it is just because she is way more social and into like i dunno talking with everybody. and yeah i've been in a whole bunch of situations where i could have made a move or talked about like heavy stuff like this with her when we're alone, but i dunno i always feel like i want to be closer friends with her instead, like i wouldn't care if i was just really really good friends with her and didn't hook up with her or anything because i just dig hanging out with her alot because i feel like she's way real and shes down to have fun and stuff and I can understand her and she understands me. well yeah so i don't know which one to choose. i was kind of expecting something to happen that night, but i just felt like talking and playing music cuz of the molly, and it seems thats what always happens, because it is what feels natural, like developing a solid connection and friend type of relationship, but it seems like nothing will ever happen and i'm just wasting my time like they will find someone else before i make a move or something. i also get the feeling like maybe they don't like me at all and i am just all crazy from too many drugs, but then again thats stupid because i am positive the first girl i was speaking of likes me, from eye contact and smiling and stuff, but she is really into being christian and is only down for like drinking coffee or a glass of wine, whereas the other girl is somebody that i would split a bottle of wine with and go to the beach and go swimming in the nude or something awesome like that ya know. well this is getting really tedious and i feel like going to bed (its 11 am ha on saturday), but i just thought maybe something good could come out of this post because i'm starting to think i'm not at all good at this kind of thing. I mean what type of stuff could i do to get closer with a girl without making it like forced and unnatural. if anybody has any advice or good remarks that could change my perspective up on this whole thing it would be super because i'm kind of done with thinking about this stuff all the time, i'm over it. any girls that can give me advice on cool stuff to do i would appreaciate it alot, sorry about ma ridiculous typing skills ...
50 people read it and nobodys got anything to say, might as well just fart in my dinner or something, yall are lame.
well, im not a girl, just a really really bored stoner with too much time on his hands but i can say this. If you like drugs and she doesn't, it probably wont work out in the end, unless you either quit, or you get her to convert- and peer pressure can turn into a very resentful thing way down the road.
art, music, hiking, partying, the second girl by the way... yea i haven't seen her since that night i was writing about, a week from today but i dunno i'm gonna refrain from taking drugs tonite and just go for it because somethings got to happen man this is ridiculous. my main thing is that I don't know if she likes me back at all...
we shouldnt decide for you man you need to evaluate the pros and cons of each one but just because you date one doesnt mean that if it doesnt work out later on down the road you can date the other one
ok yeah. I have no confusion anymore over which girl I dig more, I'm just looking for advice from cool chicks like her as to what kind of stuff you would want a guy to do if you were in this sort of situation. thanks for responding and being cool and stuff.
Have you tried inviting her to go to an art fair, or a painting class, or something like that with you? Well, if y'all get along as "friends" at least, tell her a little bit about how you feel about her. Tell her that you like her, how beautiful she looks to you, something to communicate your feelings - and then go from there.
