My advice: Resign yourself to a long wait. But anime, next time you talk to her when she's in a friendly and receptive mood do this: Just tell her you think she might be the one for you, and you'd like the chance to find out for sure, if she decides her b/f is not right for her. Then here's the hard part: Try to put her out of your mind, and date other girls. Just for fun, just for the hell of it. And just to help you get your mind on something besides her. If she comes around - and I think she very well might, eventually - then great. If not, then you've made some new female friends and expanded your dating network - who knows where that might lead? Bottom line is: This situation is designed to give you experience with patience and finding inner peace.
Thanks, but I think it's over cuz she quit her job where I met her and I think she wanted to say goodbye at work, but I was just sick of being hurt that I just walked away when she came by...I kindda regret it now...
Sick of being hurt, I understand...and maybe a bit of emotional payback? Well nobody's perfect, least of all me - I've done stuff like that too. It's your choice, and you need to decide what you can and can't handle. And there are no guarantees even if you had been friendlier. But if you happen to have a way of contacting her and apologizing for walking away, explaining your feelings, and then the statement I gave you before about thinking she might be the one...then you might be able to salvage the situation. But again: There are no guarantees. But I think you would very likely see that the approach I'm suggesting would result in a bit of magic in her attitude, and I see some nice possibilities for the two of you - if you can maintain the spirit of forgiveness and patience. If not, there are lots of other women. However I think you'll see this sort of pattern repeating over time - it might be good to forge ahead with this particular life lesson now, and get through it earlier instead of later, if possible.
You know I don't have any psychic abilities that I know of, maybe a little but not enough to give a reading of any kind, I'm more intuitive. But I went through the same thing and still am except mine is more complicated unfortunately. The best thing you can do if you have told the person how you feeel is to sit back and wait (if you are content to do so). I'm very much in love with my best friend and he knows it and I've been thrown around and tossed aside for many other girls and the only thing I can do is to wait and if it is in my fate to be with him then it will happen and if not maybe while I'm waiting I will meet someone who makes my heart beat just as fast. I think perhaps for you, you will do the same. It sucks, I know, I'm going through it too but the only advice is to let things fall into place because everything happens for a reason whether you realize it now or not. I know this is typical advice but I hope it helps. I had a really hard time accepting that my other half didn't have the feelings I have for him and if he does he hides them well. I hope that maybe you can take something from knowing that you are not the only one
I have clearly demonstrated psychic ability...but I have also been wrong. What I'm telling you came from a definite psychic impression. It's also good relationship sense - see RollinOnLove's note.
I'm 54 years old and have been through more "relationships" than you might ever see. LOL It doesn't take a psychic to see the advice I'm offering is good advice. But since you ask, here is what I'm getting from a psychic viewpoint: You need to understand that we're spirits having a human experience, and the life you're living is for a purpose - probably several purposes, in fact. I sense that you're just barely on the edge of being capable of successfully acting in the situation you're in right now. This is normal - the spirits always keep us right on the edge of our capabilities, because that's how they stretch us and help us learn. If you do as I'm suggesting, you'll make progress on your path - understand, you may not succeed, but you WILL make progress. Your path is to keep your personal feelings of desire and rejection in check, to forgive and truly love this person you're attracted to. And the way you do that is to tell her how you feel and what you want, and then let her go, and move on, and take whatever comes. This will not be easy - it's not meant to be easy. Furthermore, my psychic feeling is that you can succeed with this, and that you'll be thankful you did, because you and she will create some experiences that you'll treasure. But keep in mind that psychically speaking, the future is not set in stone. The potential is there, and it's a strong potential. The spirits won't give you a guarantee on this, because if you knew for sure you would succeed, there would be no stretching and no learning from this situation. Savvy?
I thank you for your advice and I'm thinking of telling her how I feel, but I don't know if I'll see her again...
Well I do feel like telling her if I'll see her again, but I'm just afriad that she'll just do that "hate to break it to you" expression on her face like she did when I'd got her some roses a few months back...
I know, it hurts...I know only too well. As I mentioned before, there are lots of other women, and you have lots of years ahead. Whatever you decide to do, I hope the best for you.
Well I've just went back to work and just talked to her and everything seemed good, but I didn't tell her how I feel just yet, didn't feel it was the right time, but soon...
My sense is that she's interested. Intrigued, in fact. She's a bit shackled by her current relationship, but you got her attention. Am I right?
No, she told me that we could only be friends and nothing can ever happen between us. She also told me that at times she felt uncomftable around me.
I'm sorry, animedevil. I could tell you that this was something you needed to experience for your spiritual growth, but I know that's not much comfort, if any. Maybe it would be slightly more comforting to know that you're not alone - I have been treated much worse than this by a woman I expressed interest in - MUCH worse. I have also had wonderful experiences of mutual love with other women - and you will too. Hold out for those experiences, anime, and just blow this one off. As for me, I think it's time to give up doing "psychic" readings. I thought I could learn to do this on demand, but it's obvious that my spirits are purposely feeding me lies, because there is no doubt in my mind that the information I was getting was being given to me by spirits - I've learned this much in my travels - I can distinguish my own thoughts from knowledge received through psychic/spiritual channels, and this is the second time I've done a reading in which the psychic impressions turned out to be exactly opposite from the truth. Maybe I need to find better spirits, but in the meantime I'm not going to continue to be the channeler of psychic lies. I'm sorry, anime.
