Hello im writing today to find out how guys like their handjobs? My boyfriend and i didnt have sex yet or do anything else and i wanna drive him wild with a hj. I usually just switch from pumping him and stroking his balls with my fingernails. He says it feels good but i dont know that for sure. Sometimes i feel his legs twitching so i guess it must feel good? Gimme some ideas
red tube... free porn site. other then that keep on stroking.... I like to listen to Billy Squire while getting pumped... First you try to bed me you make my backbone slide But when you found you bled me-- skip on by... keep on---stroke me, stroke me
Handjobs do "nothing" for me, exept getting me all horned up, which means if I don't get laid in a few minutes after the hand job, I just get pissed the fuck off(what man wouldn't). Well, maybe a hj once in a blue moon, but I'd expect my girl to make me cum, though, otherwise I'll just get pissed(like i said, like almost any man out there). A blowjob with a climax please, no hj's, like Geneity said.
Yup... I agree! Handjobs are boring! If I wanted to feel like I was getting a handjob from someone...I'd use my opposite hand, sit on it til it fell asleep, and start stroking. It would feel like someone else giving you a hand. Now... a set of lips, and a tongue around my shaft, going v e r y slow?? (Just the mouth---no hands) Just ELECTRIFYING!!
a handjob hah? no use of mouth or anything? hmmm... well pumping and stroking my balls sound sufficient... or maybe u shud let him "fuck ur tits" ... oh yea!
oh!! and maybe if u and ur partner are into prostate stimulation then u can try squeezing a finger into his rear hole .. do u follow what i'm trying to tell ya?
Lube it up with spit or if you refuse to suck him, something else. (NEVER USE SHAMPOO). Anything made for the skin, like skin lotion, etc. That's all good. Or just buy something made for this, like KY jelly. Here's how I like it: Slow but dramatic. Keep a firm grip, and tease him. Keep the tempo down, but when he's about to cum, speed up.
The reason most of you can't see anything in handjobs is because you've never had one or have never had a woman give you a good one. There is a lot to be said for handjob carried out by an experienced woman. It is a highly erotic and pleasurable experience.
I've had good hand jobs (I've been to singapore and bangkok) and I have to say that even the best ones just don't do it for me.
best thing to do - ask them to show you a bit with holding your hand with his and then continue on with making adjustments accordingly to his comments. every guy is different and he will not find it offensive or lame if you ask, because it means you care.
oh and moderate the speed, not too much but if you see the guy is really enjoying it speed up then slow down and again...
Well I Do Have To Agree With Everyone Else A Handjob Is Pretty Lame, You Canknock His Socks Off With A Blow Job...... However It Can Be A Good Way To Change Things Up In A Relationship, But You Are Looking For Advice On Good Technique...so Try Lubrication, The Head Is Very Soft And Sensitive For Try That Area And When He Says Hes Gonna Cum Continue Stroking Exactly The Way You Are And Possible Speed It Up A Little Bit
HJs are very cool for me! I like a bit of oil or cream on my one eyed monster tak'n it slow and easy. Lot's of play'n and swing'n it around an squeez'n it all over. Nut massage. Put'n it between the titties and feet. Good stuff, good times. Enjoy!
I am afraid I have to agree with those who don't really like handjobs. Women just don't do them right and I usually end up finishing it off myself, even after 23 years of marriage, my wife does not do it as well as I can do it myself. Having said that, have him stand in front of you, get on your knees or squat in front of him, get your face as close to his cock as necessary, lube him up with spit (although I prefer astroglide) and start stroking. Start out slow and work up speed, then slow down again. Stick your tongue out a few times, acting like you are going to give him a blow job, but never quite delivering. He will probably try to grab your head and put you mouth on him, just move his hands away and smile at him. If you feel bold, rub his cock on your cheeks and let him cum on your face or better yet your tits.
not what i prefer, but sometimes that's all you can do in certain situations. but i do like seeing him shoot his load at the end of it.