needy, or just lonely?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by enfys moon, Apr 23, 2008.

  1. enfys moon

    enfys moon Member

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    i've been thru some really rough things in my childhood, things most people wouldnt imagine, and as such, have a lot of emotional problems and abandonment issues.
    i came out about my problems back in august and my partner has been a part of my life a little before then so he's been here for me every step of the way. things havent always been perfect, but no relationship is.
    Anyways, we moved into a new house away from his parents and all that about 11 days ago. i was really looking forward to it being the two of us, and since we've moved in, he's spent 2 nights at a mates playing with cars, 2 nights with another mate in the city playing with cars, 1 night setting things up for an event the next day, and then 2 days playing with cars and not speaking to me at all. and 1 night we went to a friends and he spent the night in the shed while i was at the house.
    He leaves for work before i get up and the nights he's out he doesnt get home for a couple of hours after i go to bed.
    i feel extremely lonely cos im sitting at home on my own every night. all my friends live an hour away n i dont have a licence so i cant go and see them.
    i want to talk to him about it but im afraid ill just push him away...
    can anyone help me?
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I'd talk to him about it. He sounds like he's ignoring you.
     
  3. Jeremiahj

    Jeremiahj Member

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    wow that aint kool. sorry dear, im a soft dude and hope it aint like that for me and my future gf. id just say tell him how u feel, like "i feel like ur never home" or such.

    good luck!!!
     
  4. wutthe4k

    wutthe4k Mr. Mojo Risin'

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    i'm sorry to hear that =/ but yeah i'd say just give it a shot talking to him
     

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