What is it that a guy or girl does that turns you on? I mean not in bed, but way prior too, that makes you find him or her hot and attractive? Confidence? Eyecontact? Smart clothing?
The things that turn me on? Hm... Well I know this sounds ironic, but the main thing is a tough or dark sort of demeanor, mixed with some kindness. A girl who's gothy, athletic or even tomboyish/rugged while still being able to be friendly and converse well- That's a huge turn on. I also love openly flirty girls- I love a girl who's in touch with her sexuality. Red hair, that too. The last two posters had some great points, a lot of which I just have to agree on.
What turns me on most is confidence without arrogance but with kindness and integrity. Nice hands, good teeth. And tall guys really turn me on too. Also, and this is always true, if they are a good dancer, they are good in bed.
Individuality, personal warmth with a hint of shyness, a little untidy, sparkly eyes with strong eyebrows + a woman who is at least a little hairy.
If they have good rhythm and are co-ordinated. If their bodies are in tune with the beat, they move well when dancing then you know they most certainly will be good in bed. Also I think good dancers have stamina, energy, interest. They are a certain type of person regardless and this also makes them good in bed. Porn is boring because it is so obviously simulated and lacking in true, animal passion. It is all pose.
