Hey Everyone, I got into a new relationship and ive reached a problem. My girl isnt like my previous relationships when it comes to sex. My prior relationships all were great sexually, making love is different. This girl says she cannot have an orgasm from regular sex, we've tried twice and she says it feels good but it doesnt feel like when i finger her, and even when i finger her it only works on the outside. Ive never been a prolbem be4, like i always made my prior lovers orgasm and it was great. But now she says that if it goes on for to long it starts to get uncomfortable, and she says she doesnt feel like its getting close to orgasming. She worries this will be a problem, i love her so i dont think so but i would like to figure out a way to make it work just incase. ANY ADVICE PLZ???
I have a few thoughts: First, be happy she can orgasm at all. some unlucky females can't even get one. Apparently she loves your fingers on her clit, and I'm assuming you go down on her too. If not, you should. She seems like the type that would love that. Also, try different positions. One position that can turn a "dead" pussy into a very sensitive one is Lifting her legs up to your shoulders when you get on top of her. They say it drives the G-spot crazy. If this doesn't work, try her on top (though that will probably do little) and try a bunch of others. All in all, the legs on your shoulders thing should be the best bet. My last thought: Maybe she's just honest. Maybe the other girls were "Faking it". I doubt this, but I have to mention it as a possibility. Bleh, I'm not an expert on this. Good luck.
Besides what Chronic said, also try maybe a little more foreplay; if you get her pretty excited first, she might enjoy it a lot more. Also, it seems like it would work to try rubbing her clit while you have sex, you could do this from behind in an 'on the side' position pretty easily, she might like it quite a bit.
