so last night, I broke up with my boyfriend of two years for a girl that I really want to be with. I asked him before hand if he would let me have a relationship with her as well as long as he was the only man and he said no. I told him that I really needed to be with this girl right now and as much as I love him still, I had to be my own person right now....... life is hard.......and i am so confused and upset
You've gotta go where your heart leads. Tough decision but it sounds like you made a good choice. Love is confusing no matter what the gender. Hang in there, And Good Luck! Peace & Joy, J
Btw I listened to some of your music. You're seriously talented! Caffiene totally blew my mind!! And yea I am a Caffiene junkie lol. Keep up the good work! Rock on, J*
Don't know what to say, Just hang in there and follow your own heart. Too bad your B/F couldn't be more accommodating about sharing you with a woman lover. Some people are just averse to polyamory. Oh, I liked your music as well. Will listen to more of it when I have time.
Sometimes you come to these forks in the road and you can only travel one of the roads...kinda like that Robert Frost Poem...you can look down the other road but you gotta take your own route. Who knows where it may lead to or whats around the next turn...keep on truckin'
yeah....it's just so hard because I am in love with them both and to choose one is such a tough thing to do...... thanks for checking out my music!
I have been in this situation once before. It is very hard to choose between two people you love, but I am sure your heart told you the right thing to do. Just hang in there and things will get easier with time.
I should mention..I'm going out with a girl who really loves me but I'm thinking I want to see guys too.I know she's not open to that. Right now I choose to stay. Were serious but she lives 2 1/2 hours away so I don't see her alot.I don't know what I'm gonna do cause she wants to get more serious.It's really confusing cause I like this girl but I don't think I'd be happy in a more serious relationship with only her. I don't think I'm really ready to get serious anyway.Espicially after being in some misreable relationships I'm not in a hurry to get serious again. I don't want to say anything to her because I'm not sure of any of my thoughts or feelings on all of this. So I'm going through something(not exactly like what your going through)but similiar in some ways. Unfortunately I'm confused about what my hearts telling me with this lol. It seems it's all mixed messages. You're not the only one who's had to go through this. Why is life so complicated?
