Signs, body language? bicurious male

Hi All, i need some advice...

i'm a 25 bi curious male and have never done anything with another guy before and my curiousity has some what increased over the past few months... here's my story...

I'm a very regular gym buff, so i'm one of the regulars, as like many others. Anyway when i first joined this gym (over a year ago), i noticed another regular who got my attention. In some ways i was attracted to him, not sure if it was on the 'curious' side but i knew i wanted to befriend him, but i was too shy... we made lots of eye contact, but i put it down to both being buff heads wanting to get some ideas off one another... there were even many occassions of eye contact in the change room, which i put down to, maybe he want's to be friends as well...

Well after 10 months of this, i eventually said hello when we bumped into each other in the change room, and so for the last 4 months we've been on talking terms... i know he has a girl friend as i do as well, but can you guys give me some advice on any body language or signs i should look for? like eye contact or stance? anything???

thanks in advance...

 

I think you'll feel it if it's there =]

 

You can't know unless you ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. My approach may not work for you, though, because I'm a very blunt, very dominant person. I, however, can be shy on occasion as well. If you're afraid that he'll look at you weird then try and make him approach you. If that doesn't work then when you're at the gym choose an exercise machine close to his, but so close that it seems like it's deliberate. Make sure there's at least 2 machines between you so it makes it look as if it was an accident. If you're across from him, make sure it's not directly across or it will look deliberate. Switch these up so you don't look like a stalker and don't do this every day, either. Make it look like chance/fate/destiny/karma, whatever you want to call it. This not only makes him feel less awkward if he chooses to talk to you then you don't have to worry about moving closer or talking loud or even if he can smell your BO. If he doesn't notice you and/or approach you, then you can find out little things about him. He may bring an MP3 player one day and you can find out if he likes loud music or if he's conscious that other people will here it and turns it down low. You can tell he's conscious from him having sharp hearing because if it's too loud when he turns it on and he has sharp hearing he'll wince. If he's worried about people hearing it he'll look around a little. This indicates that he's pretty polite and tries not to insult/bother people. If he only looks around sometimes, not all the time, then he's partial to be happy and sad, which means he's kind of sensitive and appreciates the little things, but they can also make him kind of angry.

 

So you've been on talking terms for 4 months,great that's good.Push the conversation a little,that's what I try to do.Keep talking to him but naturally,if you find you're beginning to force it stop and go back to what you were doing,but if he follows your lead and continues to talk to you(as much as you're talking to him or more)he's intrested in something.If he was'nt he'd let it go and backoff a little.You would just go back to normal just less talking than you might have been doing,that may seem a little awkward but don't worry @ least you would know.It's good to do something instead of waiting and waiting.
People are funny,.. sometimes when they backoff they come back to you(as if they needed to think what they were gonna do with you)if that happens be as open and as friendly as him.Let him lead where he wants to go with it.
Also just be natural with want you want that's the most important thing.
If somethings gonna happen just be open to it and don't worry or force anything.
Call it fate.
You've been talking for awhile so he must like you somewhat(either as a casual friend or more).
Don't worry be natural.
Don't force anything.
Be yourself.


Joy & Peace,