First, I don't really understand your question that well. Bad grammar lol Second, I'm assuming you're a guy (srry if im mistaken lol) I guess it'll depend on how far you're into your orgasm, If you're at the peak, then it doesn't matter what she does, It doesn't matter if she's squeezing you hard or soft, you will cum sooner or later... and I can't believe I answered this question lol.
How hard you squeeze isn't important. In fact, don't squeeze at all. You're not milking a cow. You'll not be able to squeeze it at all with a blowjob unless you are using your hand, then a light touch will do nicely. It's not a race to see how fast you can make the guy cum. Who are these people and where do they get these ideas?
Take it easy guys .. no need to review her grammar or to criticize her ideas … taking into consideration that obviously she was horny when she posted this dilemmatic question … Ok… I suggest that you follow your desire & joy when you’re giving a blowjob or any other sexual activity.. to squeeze his penis.. or pamper it .. fry it… boil it … scramble it … it’s all yours and your choice as long as YOU enjoy what you do regardless of how fast he cums… you both don’t want to cum fast anyway as long as you enjoy what you do.. Otherwise if you’re doing this as a duty ONLY to please him then don’t do it at first place… a normal man wouldn’t enjoy knowing that his girl is doing things she doesn’t like to do but only to please him… perfect sex is a mutual joy or else it’s better to masturbate… Now excuse me I’m going to masturbate