I was here a few years ago, and everyone was helpful... So I have another question. I'm not gay. I'm considered attractive, I'm athletic, etc. At my gym, I've gotten to know this dude. He's offered me money to blow me. I can use the money, not desperate, but it's enough money to make me consider. We've talked parameters (I won't reciprocate, he doesn't take off any clothes, etc.) and he's fine with them. Oddly, he's all about the penis, which I don't get, but to each their own..... I guess we're sort of friends. Trust isn't an issue, and I figure this'll be fine. Am I missing something here? I don't think it'll screw up the friendship nor does he, and I'm kind of hoping that his attraction for me will be over once he's, you know, given it a try, and we can just be cool again. Am I forgetting something and/or being naive? Edit to add: Thanks for the views and the reply, so far. To be clear, the "friend" identifies himself as gay. I'm fine receiving the BJ, as long as he's fine with my limits. Will this screw up the friendship? I don't think it will. He doesn't think it will. Is there something I should think about? I'm hoping he won't be attracted to me once we've gone through this, because his attraction to me seems to be getting in the way of the friendship. I just want to hang with him without him feeling this weird tension. Is it possible, once he's tried it, he'll be over it completely? He told me he thinks so...
I don't think I'd consider that odd. A lot of guys get off only giving. Technically you could call me bi. I love women, could never give up pussy but on occasion I happen to like a big cock in my mouth. I don't like anything else about a guy. Strictly the cock. And I too, can get off on giving head only with no reciprocation. Just close your eyes & imagine it's your best friends hot mom...
If you are sexually attracked to the guy and enjoy sucking cock take the money. It sounds like a very nice part time job.
Lol, I would feel awkward taking money for it. (I'd probably enjoy it though) but you should definitely do it, just don't let the word get out, that's how rumors happen. Lol.
I'm just lying back and letting him blow me, and taking money for it. In case that wasn't clear. I won't be sucking anything, or even touching him at all, really. He's gay; I'm not. There's no attraction from me, but I think it'll be fine. He's okay with me bringing in my Penthouse magazines, etc. It's weird but like I said, I can use the money. Just hope this doesn't screw up the friendship.
Don't you think it's kind of weird for a friend to pay another friend for oral sex? I'm curious how much he is willing to pay you.
I don't know if I think it's weird. Do you? I guess that's why I'm asking. I wouldn't do it for free. He's paying me enough to make me think. It's enough for a good night out, or groceries for a week for me (meaning enough for one person). So it's not a huge amount, but it's enough. I'm not sure what you mean. It's one time only. But obviously I'm having at least some tiny doubts, or else I wouldn't be posting the question.... I think it'll be fine. We've talk a lot of the stuff through, like what I'm willing to have touched, etc. I think it's fine.
Yea Dude, Hope it does'nt get complicated for you in any way. It would be great for me but I already have an attraction to men. You seem very confidently things will go exactly according to plan and they may and they may not. You may end up wanting a BJ from him all the time.I would. That may sound like extreme silly bullshit,but have you thought about it? This dude may figure once he's sucked your dick so well you'll naturally be coming back for more. I don't know how that would effect you (If that happened)but if I was straight it would effect me in some weird way.Things happen you know. Sorry,I'm not trying to put you on some kind of shit trip.I'm just trying to look out for you. When I was a boy I did'nt think I was any different than any other boy,straight boy(Now I know I was)but the first time I had sex with a guy it totally changed my life.Maybe it was destined to happen but it was a major change.I can look back now and see. I had a really hard time accepting myself and my sexuality. I came from a extremly homophobic and gay hater community. It was awful. Now cicumstances are different,I got through it. I dunno part of me says Hell Yea! Go for It,and the other part says Be Careful! Just my thoughts. I maybe completely insane,if that's the case you can just kindly disregard this post.No problem.You are free to disagree. Joy & Peace, Joe,
Yes. Friends don't pay each other for sex. It is clear that he a deeper attraction to you; more than friendship. I don't think that he would be willing to pay to give you head if he just thought you were hot, there's more there then that. I think you need to set boundaries (meaning no oral sex, if you don't have any plans to ever reciprocate). Personally, I think the situation is going to come back and bite you in the ass. If his friendship doesn't mean much to you then go for it. But if you're interested in maintaining a relationship (friendship or whatever else) I would say it would probably be a poor decision to follow through with the situation.
