Does anyone have any tips on how to do anal? My fiancee and I have tried it before, but it hurt me a lot. I really want to try it because I have heard GOOD things about it, but we don't really know what we are supposed to do. We know that you have to use a lot of lube, but what else do we need to do to be able to do it?
or you could just be a gentleman and post it where others can see it lots of warm up, foreplay, playing with fingers first, etc. and lots and lots and lots and lots of lube (or so ive heard, ahvent tried it just as yet)
Yes and try to just relax, try not to put any expectations on what's "supposed" to happen. Keep trying it, don't force anything, take your time. The first time he may only be able to get the head of his penis in and that's OK. Next time he'll get a little bit further in and so on. Once you and your fiancee get it right (comfortable and enjoyable for both of you) you will LOVE it! Ooops, almost forgot, have regular sex first just to relax your muscles but not until he cums. It helps, trust me.
Anal sex can be very fun and satisfying for both partners. I had a girlfriend who absolutely loved it, almost more so than vaginal intercourse. The secret is just relaxing for the woman or man, use plenty of lube, and the person with a cock or dildo, take it very slow....don't do none of that stupid porn movie ram ram ram crap. The spincter muscle will relax itself after a bit, and then the rythym can be increased over time. The anus is a very errogonous area. Time and lubrication are the keys to enjoyment.
I prefer my husband to be on top with my legs up high. Some women prefer doggy style but I don't know any of them personally. My friends that I've talked with prefer their man on top, too.
well there right it takes lots of time and a great deal of patience lube fingers loosening up your rear and then take the penetration nice and slow O and I think the best position is any thing were you can look into his eyes as he cums
Hi hb. Ok heres so good ways for to enjoy anal. First forplay is gr8. Get him to lick ur arsehole, havin our tongue riming ive been told feels good, try relax and close ur eyes. Next get him to lub his finger sliva is good some say it beta than lubrication. And insert hes finger in ur asshole ,slowly and ask him to play with it in there for a good 10mins so u and your arse is relaxed by then. Then go for 2fingers by that point ur arse should be relaxd and by this time should start to be liking it, if n0t then he not doing it right. The thicknes of his 2fingers should be same thicknes of his dick. Again do this for 10mins him puling fingers in and out should feel nice. By this time ur arsehole should by relaxd and ready. Ok now try sucking him. Gve him good head. Thnk to urself that its hes dick thats goin up ur arse and u wana pleasure him, at same time hun stick finger up him, its enjoyable 4 us guys to. N0w lay on bed sideways with ur bum facing him. Make sure he has enough silva on hes dick for u. And slowly ask him to slide it up ur arse. Once u get hes helmet in then ur ready. If u stil feel lil bit uncormfortable say stop or just have him to kep head in there til ur comfortable to continue. Once u are then slowly get him to do a slow rytheme inside u. Or if u want just move ur ass up and down hes dick so u control it. Once hes complety inside u rub ur clit. Rubing ur clit during anal help u feel double pleasure. Then after a whle change positions to doggy. B4 he puts it in get him to lick ur ass again. Can neva have to much lub silva. Again make sure he puts it in slowly hun. And n0w it should start to feel good now again rub ur clit to feel pleasure again and if feels good you can say to him in a pornstar voice "fuck my arse" him hearing that should excite him to pound ur arse harder and faster. And if ur realy enjoyin it get him to cum inside ur arse some say it feels good having hot cum in their arse. Well hope this has helped u. Mayb i could do my own personal anal busines hehe. Gl hun let me know how u do. Matt x
The long and short of it is this... it takes time and lots of lube... you can work at it over a couple of days to get used to the feelings.. start with one finger... then 2.. then work up to small toys etc... then when you feel comfortable you can have hime try again.. take your time though so it doesnt hurt.. if it hurts make him stop moving and just relax, the more relaxed you are the more relaxed your ass will be and the better it will feel to you...
