I hate one of my friends

Hi all

Recently i've realised that i hate one of my friends. It started out with him just annoying me here and there but i've been thinking about the things he does and his personality and all that and realised that i really don't like him. In my view he is fake and i think he is very self centered and VERY arrogant.

I can't stand being around him any more but unfortunately he is good friends with most of my mates so i see him a fair bit. I know hate is a strong word but i can't help the way i feel.

peace

 

it seems like my friends always have omnipresent friends that i strongly dislike. i usually just ignore that person and have fun with the people there that i do like instead

 

What does that mean? Yeah when ever a bunch of us hang out and he's there i usually just don't talk to him but i think he doesn't realise i don't like him so he always talks to me. I'm kind of hoping that over time we'll drift apart so i'll never have to see him again. It's just weird because we were really good mates for a few years but now i can't stand him.

peace

 

Always around

 

ahh ok, thanks


peace

 

ah well, a simple fact of life that people might be reluctant to admit is that you're not always going to go well with every other person you meet.

 

I have a friend that I don't really like because she's self centered and greedy. I see that more the longer I know her. I hang out with her anyway because she doen't have too many other friends and I feel bad for her.

 

i have that problem a lot, but i am too nice too tell people to fuck off. i'm getting better at it, though. i'd rather have friends than enemies, it just makes me uncomfortable.

 

i have a friend who's the same way..
she used to be my roommate last year, and we got along really well until i saw how fake, and annoying she was.
i rarely talk to her anymore, even though she's best friends with my best friends.
i just kind of cut her off one day when i couldn't take any more of her shit.

 

That's what i want to do with this friend. It's just hard because he is always at the parties that i'm and basically just always around. Was it hard cutting off your friend? How did you do it?

peace

 

he/she is just a person

why were u friends with them in the first place?

 

Just sit it out, they wont be around you forever.

 

Hate is a strong word. It's not good for YOU to hate anyone. If you don't like him why not just not be friends with him anymore?

 

i use to have the same problem id try to be friends with them cus they were "cooler" than me but now i say fuck it tolerate them and when they do something callem out on it, but don't talk shit behind backs that just makes you look like a pussy bitch. eventually everyone will see what you see and then the person realizing he has no real friends will change, this person is now a good friend of mine.

 

I'm pretty sure there is always one friend in the group that everyone hates lawl.

 

Whatch Laws and Order and CSI and find the most logical way to kill him and get rid of the evidence!

 

this is such a fun topic. how is it that people have no self-awareness? Do people honestly not see themselves the way others see them or do they have that vision and choose to deny it?

One friend I have reminds me of the OP's friend. He's always talking about crap he did that day or bullshit he has to do and how he's lonely yet when you bring up self-improvement, even when it's not directed at him, he'll change the subject asap back to retarded shit. I think he knows perfectly well what his flaws are but to confront them and change them seems to mighty a challenge.

So he pops pills and gets drunk regularly (not nscrly combined though), and continues his state of stagnation and self-loathing. He knows that for him to change he has to give up certain vices that provide anesthesia but are also limiting and self-desensitizing.

I would never say I hate him, but I do hate a lot of his BS. It seems complicated but I think it's a simple matter of whether you're a consumer or a producer of energy, whether you extract energy from your body's energy centers or you're always requiring external energy sources to fulfil yourself.

 

i say you dont cut him off
just stop talking to him as much
if he says something that bugs you
try to make a point
if he says something self centered
point it out to him that hes doing it
he should be more self aware and im sure if he knew about all the traits in him that are bad
im sure he'd want to change
but hey maybe he does
maybe he hates himself for how he is?
you just never know
try to be considerate but dont let him bother you
treat him like a person
try not to hate him so much though

 

i always worry that i am one of those people.

i have a good group friends and we hang out every day, esp. me and my best friend we are ALWAYS together, but she just got a boyfriend and has been chillin with him a lot more, idk recently ive just been wondering if she only hangs out with me because weve been friends for a while and we're just used to hanging out all the time,

i HATE it when people are around that everyone doesn't want to be around, i would hate it even more if i was one of those people, like if everyone didn't want me around i would really want them to tell me instead of secretly wishing i would go away

i hope its not like that but idk how to tell, i think im just scared of being rejected but what if it actually is like that :\

 

i always always always! feel like im that person that everyones always talking about
ive got it bad though
like when im high and starving and hanging out with people
i guess my brain isnt working so i make up all this stuff i think their saying
and i feel like their all talking about me in front of me
but i end up finding out that everyone was just being normal and nice
dude its so hard to be like this
sometimes i wish i wasnt such a coward, but it would be a lot easier if the world wasnt as mean
i cant trust anything anymore :/