I've posted this on one other forum, because I usually get ignored a lot for some reason... >>; Alright, I have a problem... or two. To get to the point, I first need to know what exactly are psychic bonds/links, and how they are made exactly. Why? Well, I'm trying to make sure I *don't* have a bond with a certain aquiantence of mine. Because for some reason, he *knows* certain things that I know he shouldn't know (because there's no way he could unless he was there), but he does. ( Please note I'm trying to be as discreet as possible here). He won't ever look me in the eye unless he has to, but when he does, he always looks at me funny. I can't really explain it. Not only that, but sometimes I can tell what he's feeling/thinking unintentionally. It's really awkward, but most of the time plain creepy. It's like whenever I think of something really random, somehow the next time I see him the word/thing I was thinking about pops up in some form or another. Normally I'd pass it off as pure coincidence, and that I've bumped my head one too many times on my bedroom door, but there's too many times these "coincidences" have happened. And these aren't normal things. I'd randomly want to go shopping at a certain bookstore somewhere in the middle of the day, and when I follow my impulse and finally get there, guess who? It's happened more than once. It's like when one of us thinks of something the other gets it too. It's starting to get irritating. Another thing, I don't know if it's associated or not, is when I want something to happen, or I need something for some reason, a solution appears with virtually none of my effort. It's like if I had an important tryout coming up for something, my best friend (who's really good at what I'm trying out for) suddenly has time off from her work and asks if she can help without me even asking. Usually she never has time for anything. To tie in with my aforementioned problem above, if I suddenly want to see "him" somewhere for some odd reason, I start seeing his friends. It's really awkward, because one day I was driving home from the grocery and thinking of something I had to tell him, when out of the blue a car zips by me, and it's one of his coworkers. The two of us aren't even close. Not remotely. He's a jerk to my friends and though I'm almost positive there's a softer side to him, he's just not my type. We don't but heads at all or get into arguments, but we don't talk to each other either very much. I don't think you could even all us friends. What little conversation we've had has just been pure business or out of necessity. Any solutions on how to break this bond (if it is one) or how to put some sort of shield up are very much welcome. -GF ... PS, out of curiosity, since there seems to be some "actual" psychics here, can anyone guess my real age? No one has to, I'm just curious as to the responses..
Hi ghost flower. I'm not an "actual" psychic. I've had all kinds of psychic experiences, I've had telepathic conversations, and two of the people I've had those mental conversations with have responded out loud to my unspoken thoughts or questions lots of times - and a couple of times I've done the same with them. And I've had lots of definite, specific psychic impressions that have turned out to be right. But I'm not even going to try to tell you your real age. I would probably be wrong, and it's totally beside the point. "Being psychic" is a lot more subtle and complicated than that. It's...well, it's a lot like being you. Cuz that's what's happening to you. You're being psychic. Welcome to the club! LOL Can you guess my age? Uh, uh, uh - don't look! LOL You'll probably get some posts here from people who have suggestions to block the "bond." I think you should try the suggestions to see if they work. I'm not going to give you any suggestions like that, because I believe the bond is there for a reason, and that reason involves your psychic/spiritual growth. The fact that you really don't like this person much is another clue. This tells me that there's something about him that is like a part of you that you're repressing. The best thing is for you to find that part of yourself and accept it, and to love yourself for having those traits. When you do that, this guy will no longer have any purpose in your life, and the bond will dry up all by itself. By the way, I know some people who could tell you your age. But my guess is that none of those people will post an answer here for you - cuz that's not really what being psychic is all about. It's not like the TV shows, GF.
There is no such thing as pure coincidence, you can trace back every coincidence you've ever experienced to having a reason.
