First time anal sex with my bf - first we put finger and everything ok. Then penis - slips in after a push, enormous pain, took it out immediately, but pain remains. Now I can hardly walk and sit and have diarrhea and nausea.The pain is bad. That happened yesterday. I know that it's still early to ask but can someone say something about this?
You should use lube and if you did you should use water based for your ass some other lubes have ingredients that give me the runs and wanting to vomit too as well as a bloated and gassy tummy with cramps, also condoms that have anti spermicidal lube do the same thing to me. This feeling and pain can last a couple of days to a week for me if it is very bad runs and you are dehydrating you may need to go to the doctor you have to watch out you dont have an infection inside you because if left untreated can result in having bowel surgery and some loss of control. So if it does not get better shortly you should seek doctor advice. Let yourself get better before having anal sex again and then maybe go back to the finger for a while so you can get used to being penetrated and stretched because the penis is very big to put up there straight up, I had the finger for a long time before I went to dildos and plugs, i could not take the larger size for a long time, i must be a tight ass.
