well, not quite. but i am having some man troubles. so i have been seeing this guy. he is great and he puts up with all my shit. however, i told him straight up when this all began that i dont want to commit to him or get serious because i am moving at the end of the summer and i have a lot on my plate right now. its simply not the time for a realationship. but whether i like it or not a relationship has formed, and i feel like im leading him on. because he is crazy about me. and on one hand i feel so guilty because he is nice and incredibly hot and loves me for everything that i am. but looks and being nice can only go so far. he is possesive. and clingy. and that is a no no. so what i havent told him is that i am seeing someone else. its a relationship i began last year but it was abruptly cut short due to some major health issues ( he got shot) but we remained friends. well about a month ago i began to see this guy again as more than friends. because he is completely back to his normal self. we havent slept together or anything but i like him a lot. the other guy doesnt know anything about this. and even though i told that other guy repeadedly that he isnt my boyfriend and he has no right to trip off what i do when he isnt around, i still feel the need to keep it from him? ahh whats up with that,. so basically i am not trying to get serious with either man because i am moving. yet it is happening anyways,. so should i just cut one off before someone gets hurt? or should i come clean to both of them? i find that unnesecary. man i feel like a bitch.
i mean this as non-insultingly as possible, but you are kind of acting like one... you have to at least cut one off, at least. the first guy seems to think you are in a relationship even if you've said otherwise (mixed signals, perhaps?) and it is therefore cruel to let him keep thinking this while you're seeing your ex (or even just him, if he really has no serious chance). and as far as the ex is concerned, he also needs at least to know that you will be leaving soon, and it's also pretty mean to him to be seeing him while you have another relationship going on...
be honnest with boththe clingy 1 wont be able to handle it and will let u go the othrer will accept it for what it is u may loose both too but it shouldnt matter since your leaving soon anyway and you know u always got me heehee the shot guy is that the same ex that was in jail too or no... and clingy guy is the guy umm wait didnt u say u met him in a cave or something? lkol no i forget but he is the samre guy from several months back right/?
if the clingy guy is batman, i take back my previous advice and instead i think you should marry the clingy guy and have him shoot the other guy...
to the underwear guy - i know i am a bitch, and as long as i dont get played like one then im fine with it. and i never get played cuz i can see right through people but they cant see through me cate your right, the clingy guy has got to go. im gonna tell him that. because so many females stay in relationships cuz they think things are gonna get better. but you cannot change a man.. we know this. so its only gonna get worse with his clingyness. and no i didnt meet him in a cave what the hey? but yeah they both know im moving. imnot trying to persue anything but i cant help what happens. my ex knows i have been seeing this guy, but the guy doesnt know ive been seeing my ex. i think i will keep it that way.
You know i was gonna type out this long poorly spelt baddly puncuated piece of advice, then i realized i wouldn't tell you SHIT that these other users haven't already. Just search your heart as CHEESY as that sounds it's the best advice.
Being needy is one of the most unattractive things anyone can do. Thin the herd, cut the needy cuddy loose.
hey man there is no need for those bad vibes up in here.. and the rolly eyes dude made it all the more RUDE lol all soaringeagle does is try to help people
omg forrilz.. when will men realize that they cannot OWN a person? i dont play all that where were you and who were you with bullshit it gets on my nerves
sarah ..i forget maybe it wasnt a cave maybe he raised wolves or lived on the beach i totaly forget but there was 1 guy who had something different bout him ohyhh maybe he had dreads im always told i should live in a cave so maybe thats it
