Im 21 and a virgin. ohh yeahh. what do you guys think bout tht? Im not saving myself or anything. for some reason i jus always turn guys down.
I personally think its ok for someone to be a virgin at 21. What do you think turns us males "down"? Certainly not your age....maybe your looks? Can you post a picture and we will be more than glad help you out
OK. i meant that i turn guys down when they want it. im good looking i attract pretty good looking guys too.
well if u ever want sex you can say your a virgin as men go for that everytime from what i hear. I personaly would do the same as i have never had a virgin might be very interesting to say the least.
It says to me that you think your too good for a guy so maybe you should go find a hot girl and leave us guys alone.
Maybe you turn guys down, for you're sadistic, you have no desire for sex, or you're just gay(no offense). I've slept with 3 virgins as a young man back in the day and to be honest, sleeping with a virgin is a bit frustrating, not to mention accidental bite marks on my penis as a resuilt of the lack of how to "give head"...painful as well. Also, they don't know jack and must teach them the whole thing about sex...yea, im not really the "wanna play teacher" type...im more of the "hey,lets get down to bussiness mrs.expert." But, that's just me, though.
sounds like someone should post a how-to guide so not only are they tight, but they also know how to give some head XD
Maybe you just have not found the right guy, it's ok to be a virgin at 21, you don't seem to be uncomfortable with it, you could just be looking for a more secure relationship with a guy before you have sex with him, or maybe the guy's you have been with just don't move you in that direction. It will happen soon enough so till then just pick and chose, you have that right, it's not like you must have sex now to be hip or cool, relax and move on it at your pace, don't feel like you must until you are ready. Peace
theres nothing at all wrong with being a virgin at 21 theres nothing wrong with not being a mindles dick sucking machine like some of these fools want either ya should be proud of being lil more picky who u share yourself with and the guy u will ultimately be confy with you'll be confy with because of how he trewats u not how he looks
I guess I've been lucky. Of all the women I've fucked I don't think any of them were a virgin. No blood, no painful penetration, no inexperience. Some other guy, maybe a virgin himself took care of all that for me before I got the girl. As for being 21 and still holding out, you might want to search yourself for an answer. If you met nice looking, nice guys, why would you hesitate to get physical with them? The concept of Free Luv has been around for a couple generations now. Most people don't expect you to save yourself for marriage so why are you hesitating to have sex with a guy? If you are het. If not, then check out the chicks.
I still she has not met up with the right guy yet, and there is alot to be said for being with a girl that is still a virgin, it is a unique experence to be the first in a girls life, something very special, only been with one but I can still remember her and that night. Peace
I'm 25 and a virgin. If you haven't found the right person yet there's no reason to have sex ... yes I'd have like to have falling in love and had sex by now, but you can't force it to happen. It's cool you're still a virgin, it's easy to have sex if that's what you want, there are plenty of people up for 'fun.' If it doesn't feel right to have sex with a guy then don't, when you find real love it will feel right and you'll be glad you waited! What matters is how you feel. Fuck what anyone else thinks. If they think you're 'weird' or whatever for being a virgin, it's their problem. We can look for the right person to lose our virginity to ... but there's no guarantee of finding this special person by a certain age. Don't worry or over-analyse this situation - be true to yourself. Do what feels right to you.
Its perfectly fine to be a virgin at 21. If you havent found yourself in a situation where you want to loose it to that person, then why do it? Dont do it unless your ready, otherwise you may regret it later. Ready-ness has nothing to do with age, btw. I gave my virginity up to my husband at 14 and i wouldnt have had it any other way. Find someone who you know wont judge you on experience, and who will make you feel comfortable with yourself when you do have sex. Not every guy wants a girl because she is "well practiced" and good in bed, some guys just want a girl because of her attitude. Make sure the guy (or girl) respects you, meaning isnt put off by you being a virgin, and everything should be fine. Most guys i know would actually rather be with a girl who hasnt been around the entire town anyways. Not necessarily a virgin, just not a girl who just anyone can have. Whoever the guy is, im sure he will feel special to know that of the many guys who you have passed up, you chose him to take it. Good luck girly!
I agree with everything you've said! Age is irrelevant, it's the circumstance that matters. You lost your virginity at 14 to your husband - which is beautiful. Sex should be something special in the right context. We can't snap our fingers and make our perfect wife/husband appear - some of us will find this at 14 as you did, some are 25 and still looking! I don't think 'now I'm 25 I should just go out and fuck someone.' I'm happy with myself for always deciding to only have sex when I'm with the right person. BTW did you get married at 14 or marry him later? Where did you get married if you did at 14? I ask because in most places you have to be 16 to get married.
We got married the day i turned 18. We would have eloped sooner and gotten married somewhere where it was legal, but we had no idea how to get there and had no money anyways.
What do I think about that? I don't really care and I don't think anyone else really does either! If you read some of the posts from MollyBoston, Cuff, Spinningtop and Angelina31 then you would realise that you are missing out on a shitload! But if your happy being a virgin, then good for you!
And if you had read my last post you would see that i support her in this, rock. I know alot of people do still care about virginity, I'm one of them. In my opinion its something to be valued. Once you loose it you can never get it back, and many people dont realize that until they actually loose it. Besides, it takes alot of self control to withstand all the peer pressure to have sex, and i respect that you were able to do what you personally felt was right rather than what other people said to do. Sure sex is fun, and sex is pleasureable. But unless your with someone who you really want to be with, sex is... just sex. Nothing more. To me, sex should never be "just sex" but rather something intimate, an expression of emotions beyond the casual 'i love you', something sensual, and even spiritual. But hey, thats just me.
Ok Cuff, didn't mean to fire you up! All I meant was, by the way you girls post she's missing out on a lot...Thats all! Sheeesh!
