so about 6 months ago i started sleeping with a really good friend of mine. The sex is fantastic and we get together once or twice a week for fun its great BUT he has never ever once orgasmed. :S he keeps coming back for more - and he says things like "man i could do this all night long" - we have sex for a long time.. like an hour and he asks me if i've come... but then he just .. stops. he usually doesn't even stay hard... then i go home. at first i really worried that it was me - that i just wasn't satisfying him... but he still wants more! haha. and one time i accidentally walked into his room while he was in the shower and i'm POSITIVE i heard him orgasming in the shower!! which gave me relief at least knowing that he COULD.. but still. i have not asked him.. and i don't want to :S one time he ALMOST finished....but pulled out and controlled himself and said "i don't want to come inside of you"(that was he closest he has ever gotten i think). he's not sleeping with anyone else and it just never seems to bother him. what in the world is going on?????? thanks so much for any opinions
So you are not using a condom? Maybe he does not want to get you pregnant, so he purposely retards his orgasm. You said he came close once but pulled out and said he did not want to come inside you. Try having sex with a condom and see if he comes.
hm ya that does make sense and i have wondered that i have told him a couple times that i'm on the pill but maybe he doesn't trust it enough? or trust me enough to take it? could there be other reasons for this? i've wondered about retarded ejaculation....because he does smoke a lot of weed ha. i could see fear of pregnancy being a good reason though! thanks
or maybe he doesnt really cum and he wood be embarrassed if he orgasmed without cumming..sorry to say lol
Hahaha retarded ejaculation..... you got that all wrong. I highly doubt smoking has anything to do with it, possibly it would lower your sperm count or something along those lines, but not make your sperm retarded He most likely has some anxiety about something... try it with a condom or tell him you want him to cum.
If he drinks that can cause it too. I know from experience on that! Some guys are just that way, but it's generally from either drinking, drugs, or anxiety. As long as he's into it and coming back for more, rest assured it's not you. I find bringing it up too much bothers them after awhile, almost as bad as saying, Why can't you get it up?
tell him to lay off the drugs and alc. Also give him a long BJ. If he doesn't cum then he has an issue. Check out Orgasmic Disorder he may have a disorder like retarded ejaculation or it may be a mental issue he is having. good luck with him. At least your enjoying
