Hello, I Have been dating my Girlfriend for about 5 months and we tell each other everything (so i think) and I tell her everything I do and I have the feeling she isnt being honest with me...Here Is Why I Think She Might Be.... 1) She Dosen't Understand When Guys Are Flirting With Her...(Pshh Whatever) 2) I Have told her many times to stop talking to one of her ex's and to block him on facebook, myspace, aim, and everything else but I found his # in her phone a few days ago and she told me that she was telling him how much she loved me and wanted to be with me, but when she signs on aim he just so happens to sign on at the same time... 3) I Blocked Her Ex's On Facebook and She Just Recently Unblocked Them All 4) She Talks About Her Ex's Alot Plz Post Everything You Think AbouT THis...I Need As Much Information And Experience As You Guys Can Give Me, THanks
Excuse me for saying this dude but im trying to help you. When i was immature and really just a bad person, i did the EXACT same thing as you with my girlfriend. i'd been with her 2 and a half years and i acted how you did, which pushed her away, then she DID cheat on me twice, once with a best friend and once with someone she didnt even know who turned out to be a weirdo and was waaaaaay older then her. Long story short, you want my advice bro? Stop being so controlling and limiting her because she will just lie to you. she WILL speak to who she wants to, and rightfully so man. You cant control people and you cant take away her ability of free speech. If you cant trust her either A) ask her about it and ask her if shes cheating or B) stop being immature about it, trust that she isnt, and then if she is......fuck it. Forgive her, move on. Lifes easier when you dont create hassle.
I dont know if she is or not, but with the way you are acting I really wouldn't be suprised. You cant tell her who she can and cant talk to dude. if you keep going down that road, shes gonna dump you.
Hello, I think you have made alot of valid points. She obviously must know that you don't feel comfortable with her communicating with her ex via phone and internet yet she continues to do it regardless. Why the fuck does she need to tell her ex how much she loves you? What the fuck does he care? Sounds like BS to me.You've only been going out for 5 months so even though you may be in love with her, she may not be with you. Her behavior doesn't seem promising for a long term relationship. Being an older guy, I have seen lots of ex couples still talk and remain friends, but those are usually the ones who do it for the sake of the kids they created. The other ones may say hello in passing once in a blue moon. Her needing to keep track of this guy's everyday life on aim, myspace, facebook, etc. just doesn't add up. I would sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Tell her that it's not fair to you to be put through this. Ask her how she would feel if she had asked you to stop communicating with your ex's yet you continued to. I can tell your jealousy is starting to eat at you and that's so unhealthy. I remember being around your age and wanting someone so bad and it didn't work out. I was devastated. Love sickness is the worst feeling in the world. So since this relationship is relatively new, I would just nicely ask her to stop. Tell her your feelings without yelling at her. If she really likes you, she'll stop. If she doesn't, then it's time to suck it up and cut your losses. Time to move on and find someone more compatible. Best of luck
You guys need to just split up. You're obviously jealous and over-bearing. She is probably fucking behind your back and singing about it the shower ... with the other dude. Cut it off.
you got no right to demand that she cut contact, or block people on her. yall dont seem like a good match
She sounds like she is. And if i was her and you kept blocking everyone on Myspace etc, it would just annoy me and make me want to cheat even more.
Dude, you are obviously young. Let me give you some advice. No woman is worth thinking abou that much. You obvioulsy are in love, which is sad, because this girl doesnt deserve it. Cool off, let her have her space. As long as your banging her its all good. Just look for someone else that you think you will be interested in. If she wants to cheat on you she will either way. So just be awesome at what you are awesome at. Being a dork chasing her around is not gonna do it. There are pleanty of women out there, and more and more evey year come out of highschool or college, so waves and waves of women who are young. Remember you are a guy, you can date a younger woman, or your age, Women on the other hand, stick to men their age or older. So the odds are on your side. Just relax!! and Enjoy life. Love is overrated, and besides its a teenage thing!!!
