I've slept with 12 people....

of course, it's going to be different to everyone. and that is exactly what people who throw around labels like "slut" fail to realize; just because you don't agree with something doesn't mean it's a bad thing for someone else. and why think less of someone or make them feel bad because they don't have the same lifestyle as you?

I agree with what you're saying though, I make a clear distinction between lust and love. fucking is much better than making love, in my opinion. raw, primal, animalistic. it definitely sucks when the other person has stronger feelings than you do, especially if I'm in savage sex mode and they're in sensual passionate lovemaking mode. yawn!

 

I don't know, they're both awesome, but when you mix the two you just dilute them both. Sex with someone I really love and who loves me is great, and one of the best experiences there is (doesn't happen very often though), and I'm never thinking at the time that I've had better. But when I'm just a horny bastard, the last thing I want is someone I love and care about. I want someone I can absolutely annihilate without shame, someone I can try out stuff I saw in porn on, and who I can slap on the arse and tell to get me a beer when it's all over.

It's all about being able to let go, I think. You let go in a different way when you're having loving sex, in that you feel utterly secure. Whereas when you let go during wild fucking, it's more about knowing you're the dog's bollocks and not giving a shit one way or the other.

 

It sad to me, selfcontrol- that you've never been with someone you could both lovingly snuggle and care about,make love to one night...
and completely unabashedly fuck the hell out of the next.

I suddenly appreciate my relationship a bit more.

 

3 girls, 14 guys. I dont think Im forgetting anyone.

 

me, only three.

 

Oh, it's sad to me too, and hopefully I will find someone who will be down with it. But gays are shit, so I don't hold out much hope.

 

Lucky 8.

All women. Unless self control wants to travel.

 

Including my parents?

Hmm... a lot. Does sleeping on different sofas in the same room also count as sleeping with someone?

Probably hundreds.

 

I've slept with a lot people, but I have had sex with a lesser number (unfortunately).

 

It's hard to find both in one.

 

Smokin' hot there, babyhellfire.

 

Did you see the guy that kept a a spreadsheet? I think it's a good idea, while you're single anyways.

 

Just how warm are your hands?

 

warm and so married.

 

I 'spose thats true,but it DOES exist-and is possible.

Awww Hubby should come home soon,this thread has made me miss him.

 

...how married ,lol

I keed , I keed

 

99% married.

 

The other 1%?

 

Back off. the other 1% is just for me

 

ooooh, sorry...you're a firey one! it was only a question!