i think my guy friend likes me, and im a guy

ok so ive had this friend for years and hes had a couple of girlfriends, and fucks them and whatnot, but just recently ive been getting some thoughts about that he likes me. ok so were at my house and we decide to go somewhere and hes like youre going in those pants? and im like yeah why? and hes like i dno maybe you should change them so i do and i notice him not staring, but looking at me change my pants. anyway i broke my phone and he gave me his old phone to switch the service over to and im lookin through the pics in there and theres a bunch of me,,,, just doing things, i thought nothing of this untill i saw one of me with my shirt of kinda like flexing, and making a mean face. i dont remember doing this or being gay about it. im not gay (although i thought i was at one point, and he knows this.) but ive been with my girlfriend for like 2 years and hes friends with her very well and i dont know if i should approach him about it or whatever. ive only taklked to my gf about this, no one else. and theres a few more thigns that make me think this, but thats all i can think of righ tnow. ok thanks, tel lme what yo think.

 

yea he gay. if he takin pictures of you. man if one of my niggas was snappin shots of my sexy bod shit id have to give him tha business (knock a nigga out) but if you like that kind of stuff then b my guest lol nasty

 

maybe hes just a really good friend who likes you alot as a friend, and since you 2 are close friends, he doesnt feel any shame or embarassment by having pics of you or making a big deal when you change your clothes in front of him.
seriously, unless hes making passes at you, character cannot be defined as gay, because you can have the most homosexually perceived guy, and he could be a callibate monk for all you know.

 

In English please?

 

its possible that he secretly wants your body yea.

i take it u're posting that cuz it makes u uncomfortable, cuz u wanna be sure u're not imagining that, and cuz u want him to stop acting ambiguous.
thenmy advice is to joke about it and watch out for his reaction. like, "dude stop being so gay with me! lol".

if he actually is attracted to u and he doesnt want u to know, he'll probably have a defensive reaction and he'll probably try not to show that he likes u anymore.
if he actually is attracted to u and he wants u to know, he'll do/say something that makes it obvious. then u can always kindly say u dont feel the same way about him.
if he has no sexual interest in u, he'll be like "wth im not acting gay with u at all".

i guess u cant be 100% sure if u dont confront him about it. u may also choose not to confront him if its not that bad. i mean, after all, if he fantasizes about u, whats the harm? its not like he interferes in your relationship with your gf, right?

 

i dont speak english

i speak gangster

 

meh, I have loads of questionable pics of my friends, doesn't mean I want to ram it up their asses. a pic with your shirt off, sort of flexing? so what?

I think you might be making this a much bigger deal than it is. maybe he admires you, or if the two of you are really close friends, then that's probably all there is to it. he's even friends with your girl, even if he were gay, it is somewhat unreasonable to think that he's got the hots for you.

I think you should look at it objectively, and if you still think he's gay, so what? if he is, he will tell you when he is ready. I would advise against starting up such a talk, because if he's not gay that might make a serious dent in the friendship, and if he turns out to be gay then such a confrontation might not be the way he'd pictured letting you know about his newfound ways.

 

Just tell him something like "hey I sent those pics you had of me on your phone to my girlfriend." It says "I know they are there, but I am not interested in anyone other than my girlfriend."

If he knew you had doubts about your sexuality why would it be unreasonable for him to (possibly) think you still do? There are a lot of married men that are gay/bi, so not like it doesn't happen. There are also websites devoted to "straight" men looking to hook up with gay men.

You could kick the crap out of him for making you uncomfortable....or you could be comfortable enough in your own sexuality to not let it bug you. Yeah, it may creep you out....but another way to look at it is you must be pretty smokin if both men and women want you. If that is why he had pictures of you....

Just think about it before you do anything rash. Seems like such a waste to get rid of a good friend.....but only you can decide that.