Friends with benefits

what do you guys think about this kind of relationship??
Please . and thanks

 

as long as im not seriously dating anyone, i think its great! i love it. no strings attatched, just hot, hard fucking, lol

 

It's the only relationship I have believed in for about the past few years. Im not into relationships for certain reasons.

It's the best, like texasmade3 says not strings attached and the sex is amazing.

 

i dont have anything against it, and im very much for it. I see it as 2 individuals who need to relieve their sexual urges but dont want or need a relationship at that time.

so yes fuck buddies good

 

its a great arrangement, until someone develops feelings for the other person. I havent dated since high school, and have only kept fuck buddies. it is great in the beginning, but most go to shit coz they, in my case, the dudes want more, and when I reject em, i hafta runaway way, and there is a friendship lost. I have a great fuck buddy now, who doesnt seem to be an issue, and its fucking great. we hang out, share a passion for music, beer, weed and hard fucking. It is great. If it works out where both people dont want relationships, it can be a wonderful thing. no strings, no drama, no bullshit. Just the way I like my dick. haha

 

But this SOUNDS lke a relationship to me! hanging out, enjoying the same things.. sharing good sex ... what is missing here that makes THIS NOT a relationship? the gazing into each other's eyes? the saying the "L" word? the holding hands? WHAT?

 

perhaps it is just a psychological thing. a lot of people feel more comfortable when they are not "officially" in a relationship, it takes the pressure off or something.

i think its great so long as both parties know where they stand. i agree with Hilder, if one starts to feel more for the other person it may start to get complicated.
but if that's not an issue, go for it!

 

Can't really say, having never had that kind of relationship. It sounds like a great alternative to pickups in bars. For it to work people have to be honest and up front. On the down side it sounds like a great way to fuck up a friendship.

 

+1

If Im not in a relationship I love it

 

up until about a year ago I was against this sort of thing... I used to just "get into a relationship" with anyone who looked my way... (usually they didn't last more than a month or two) and then one day I realised... Why should I go through this pointless routine over and over again... why should I put someones hopes up when I'm not 100% certain of them myself and then end up splitting up the week later... I might aswell just fuck around no strings attached to keep things simple, and sure, when those few come around who I REALLY want to be with, THEN I'll go for a relationship.... besides... I'm 16... I have many years ahead of me to find the one I want to be with... In the meantime, why shouldn't I have a bit of fun?

so yeah basically what's been said already... if I'm not in a relationship then I think it's great.... why not?

 

They are the best. I alway kept a chic on a side, in between break ups.
Nights after partying, with boys. Bad night with your girl, pissed because of stress at work. Passing by the house and droping in. Its awesome, she is dating someone too, but we are just good in bed.

Remember, just do your best in bed the first time, and you are set forever after that.

 

the displays of affection, the labels, the having to talk to each other every day, remembering dates, the jealousy, dunno, its just different. when we spend time together, Its as friends, even if we're alone. then the sex part is completely separate, even the after sex cuddling, we arent robots after all.

 

i have two relationships like that currently goin and id rather be commited

 

Thanks to al of you this is a great perspective that you all are looking from, my only concern is if it does turn in to more then just fucking like either I get feelings for him or vise versa, thats my only worry. Im use to strictly relationships but I dont know I want to try this but I dont want any one to get hurt.

 

someone always ends up hurt. but ya take the good with the bad, and if you're both adults about it, you might still be friends afterward. In my experience, Ive had 5 fuck buddies, and they all ended with someone professing feelings, and friendships dissolved except for one. we still talk, and laugh about it, but his girlfriends dont know that we used to fuck.

 

Not my thing -- I love sex (Scorpio, you know). But I'm one of those old fogies who thinks sex should be between two people who love each other and have a commitment.

 

I guess its a good deal, that way you can see multiple people, maybe engage in some group sex without having to worry about how its going to affect your relationship. Basically lets you do things you wouldn't normally be able to do in a committed relationship.

 

I have had one successful "fuck buddy" relationship in my past. It was pretty great, to be honest. We had amazing sex a couple times a month, and never saw or talked to each other otherwise. Until he got his gf (who I didn't know about) pregnant and they moved like 10 hours away! I've never been able to find a hot guy who I felt indifferent towards like that again. Ah, the memories...

 

i love em, all the fun, none of the comitment

 

wish i could find one. how did everyone come about theirs? random people you meet who have mutual attraction? friends that you both just get the urge for and go for it?