so my dads preety fucking weaksause

i stayed kicked out forawhile but im taking my navy career more serious then ever so i quit saling drugs n shit cause it aint even really worth it...and i asked my parents if i could move back in my mom said of course. and my dad in front of me said its either your son or me and hes been there since i was a fucking spearm basically..but my mom didnt actually marry my step dad till i was like ten(funny my step dad was my real dads best frieds)..so my mom said hollaL funny thing is my dad still here and my mom was like thought u was leavin and he said well i thought you was gonna stand beside me...he amitted he was jealous of mine and moms love for each other...thats so fucking weak...she was a single parent for the most vitle years of my life and he expects her to throw it away for his ass..

 

My situation was the same at your age, actually a little younger, but the other way around. My stepmom told my dad it's either her or myself, and he chose to kick me out It was in the dead of winter too, I remember

 

thats lame. but you got through it.

didn't you say he used to go through two bottles of tullamore dew a night, though?

alcohol is a hell of a drug

i know i've felt poisoned mentally, physically, and spiritually lately due to my overenthusiastic love for alcohol.

i need to try and stop drinking. or at least cut WAY back.

 

dads are like that...ive found moms are much more concerned parents..

 

Well Im sure he has, but he was typically a bottle and nearly a case of Pabst a night kind of guy :tongue: Not on the weekends though, that shit was non stop, I remember waking up and he would be cooking us all breakfast, drinking his Dew at 8am. Like Father like son! Except I would never get that out of control, if for anything because I enjoy reading and because I wouldnt be so dumb and make such stupid mistakes as he has. I recently started talking to him again actually, so Josuha, things can always get brighter, especially when it comes to family

 

In many many situations, I agree with you. But being a father myself, I would say that even when both parents are very loving and caring for a child, the concerns are typically VERY different between the two parents.

 

well, its good you've started talking with your dad again! hope that goes well.

and yeah, i think parents just have different priorities, concerns, and ideas...not that mothers are more loving or anything.

it all boils down to individual values, though.

but yeah, dont give up on family...its important if it can be maintained.

but we're only human.

except for me. i'm just mostly human. theres also a lot of sea turtle, though.

 

your a new generation father too...guessing you didnt grow up on construction or other blue collar jobs...now adays new aged fathers treat there kids like pussies.the way my father made his income when he was younger deffinatly reflects on his attidue now...allways bitchy from tiring hard work...most people dont do that stuff now and i think people are much nicer problem is they forgot about hard work making people men

 

Eh, a man is measured by how well he holds his tongue, and not by how hard he works, in my opinion. There will always be contruction and there will always be office jobs, its been that way for thousands of years

 

but construction is what shaped my father to be the dick he is...long hard work tired him and i guess he has no time for me now..even though all he does now is drive trucks

 

I understand friend, my father is the same way. Been doing black top for the past 25+ years, and people wonder why he drank so much

 

what makes a man is a penis and testicles, and hormones, and nothing else.

being a "man" means taking a certain shape.

this shape will in turn shape how you think to some degree.....

but being "yourself" is infinitely more important than being whatever you dream a "man" should be.

tiring physical labor has nothing to do with it.

be human before being a man.

 

the one of the most fucked up things I've ever heard.

 

I whent through the same shit...but my mom is completely anti drug and she chose step dad over me...so I just did my own thing and grew up and moved on.