Have you thought about or have you already gotten involved in bi play as a sexual outlet, because you aren't getting any at home and you don't have the time or money to get involved with another woman? I have found my bi encounters to be a much more sensible way of getting some sex play without the major involvement that a woman would require. I have enough to deal with, with one woman, nevermind I don't need to bury myself deeper with another womans needs. I know that I couldn't give her the attention she would want, so why bother when I can get together with my friend for a quick , no hastle bj.
Hi Topper, Good question, I am in a good commited relationship of about 5 years, sex is ok, not spectacular but my bi urges are raging. I have never acted on them but really desire to. I cruise Craigslist all the time looking for the right experience but always chicken out. I actually believe your situation can be healthy. But I've read some threads here that skewered some for acting on their urges, the cheating aspect and all. A delima for sure.
"Cheating" How I hate that term and concept. Such a sad country song from the heterosexuals who are into that Christian concept of one man one woman. And, people into that concept of "cheating" can't even fathom polyamory, or arrangements some committed couples make. My wife of 18 years knew going in that I was bi and had lived with a man. For the most part I really enjoyed only sex with her and JO with porn straight or gay. A few times I hooked up with guys we had sex and I went back home to my wife. So where's the cheating? My wife on a couple of occasions actually told me to go do some girls I was infatuated with, but I decided not. It woulda been too involved. I think guys make better fuck buddies. They come for the sex and that is all.
for me its a purely sexual outlet, Im turned on by bisex and guys cocks, love to suck and am mostly a top,...but only when Im single as now, when Im in a relationship with a woman I dont even think about it, If fact about 2 weeks ago I was out on a date with a woman and we just kissed goodnite, I was kinda drunk and raging horny so I went straight online at home and hooked up with a guy Id met online who loved to suck cock, so we met up 30 mins later and thats all that happened, he slurped, sucked and gagged on my cock as I fed it to him for about 40mins, he really loved it and so did I, it was just what I wanted to be serviced and have my cock sucked, when I was ready to cum I made him jerk off while I fucked his mouth and talked dirty and while he was cumming I came in his mouth..... Anyway, we talked and smoked a cig and I told him why I hooked up with him, he said "so you just used me then ?" I said "YEP".....he laughed and said...."any time" !! Now there erent that many women who would be avaliable like that or laugh about it afterwards, so I guess to finally answer your question, yes, bisex for me is a purley sexual thing.
Thanks guys, I really am looking forward to sucking my first cock, but of course am dealing with the cheating etc... Which is odd as am athiest as hell and my GF would probably be cool with it, IF she ever found out. I'm loathe to go that purly ramndom glory hole route (wich does sound hot) just because of the chance of catching something. I try to establish relationships onlie to gain some trust, but if you don't hook up by about the 3rd e-mail, they are gone.
