i just wanna fuck.

Alot of people look at sex as some special thing or gift to wait til marriage where i live, i disagree. people look down on sluts and shit, but i like it. i've never had sex before and i hope to very soon, and i dont fantasize it to be some big emotional connection with a gf or some shit, i think some random sex at a party would be the shit. i guess im more into lustthan love.

 

random sex at party *with condom* would be good, to much damn aids and other shit around now for that freelance stuff that the older generations could get away with =/

 

Right on man!!!

Have a ball and stay single! You'll have a lot more fun! I wasn't as fulfilled being single, but I sure as fuck didn't have to wait on a wife or kids. Really easy to tell a boss to fuck off too.

Get a fuck monkey on the side - they're a lot cheaper than a wife.

I love my wife and family to death, but being single was a blast and there's times when I really miss it.

 

yeah, they is shit to catch out there, but imean, hell i just want someone to fuck and chill with sometimes, not a bigass relationship. i wanna be able to be like well if you wanna fuck ill fuck its no big deal to me, haha.

 

Even though I HAVE love and an amazing partner, I am big fan of LUST and just fucking for passion, fun and something different. I often wish I would have experimented more before marriage, and had more passion-filled hook ups.

 

I agree with you completly, I don't get what the big deal is?
I just want to hook up with some people here and there... no strings attached... I mean I'm sure there are girls out there who are down for just a good fuck without all the birthdays, anniversaries and other shit... I know I'll settle down eventually... but I mean I've still got MANY years ahead of me... why not have some fun ya know?

 

Trust me, there ARE girls out there who want a no-strings hook up; but I think alot of them are worried about being labled a slut. I personally would go back and just live with the label haha!

 

well all I know is if I was a chick, I wouldn't care if I carried that label lol. and people these days shouldn't either!

 

Yeah man I hear you; there's still an awesome deal of happiness to be found in a strong, best friends-type relationship with a girl though, but finding one of those doesn't happen too often, and if that's not your thing, you shouldn't feel obligated to do it man, in the end it's about what makes you truly happy.

 

Couldn't agree more with everything you just said...

 

You could always hint around to your husband about having a threesome or swinging. A lot of men would be into that but are afraid of their wife's reaction.

 

Yeah I agree. Relationships are more trouble than good. All you need are a willing fuck buddies and you enjoy life.

 

i know that shit, im young and its all natural that i just wanna fuck like hell haha, and i also know about the oxytocin shit, and i wonder when i actually do have sex ill be thinking otherwise cause hormone shit. but really i just like the idea of being able to have sex with one chick, then if someone else is into it i get to do it with them, partially cause im young but other way cause i mean damn that would be great.

 

sex while in a relationship feels better IMO but takes effort
just straight up fucking random horny girls is easier but less fulfilling
either way go get you some man
its easy

 

I agree with you there... sex in a relationship would probably feel better and more fulfilling since it's with someone you care about, but I mean, I'm freaking 16, I've got plenty of time to find that special person to have a relationship with, but until that time, why NOT just go mess around with random people? besides If I tried to FIND someone JUST to have a realtionship it wouldn't be the same...

 

I have a wife and 2 kids, never had sex before i met my wife and i was 25. I used to look down on sluts and shit but when i got hitched i then found out i should have been out there getting all the experiance i could get. I now wish i could get a fuck buddy and the wife knows it. She is ok with it to a point and even said if i could get a blowjob buddy it would be fine because she has stopped doing that kinda thing.

I just want more from out of sex at the moment and my wife dont want to experiment which leaves me kinda pissed off. I still love her all the same though as we are expecting our 3 child.

 

I remember when I got that way... I was seventeen.. then I got drunk, got a condom, was on birth control.

*Sigh*
God that hurt.
I got pregnant that night too. But youre a dude so I'm sure you won't get pregnant

 

Oh btw Morcar.. whats' wrong with your wife? You should get her to start taking horny goat weed, I recommend it for everyone... She could just feel depressed. That was my problem.. now my husband and I are back to.. a lot.. a lotta lot... I'm not on it anymore, but for some reason you just forget why you even did itin the first place.

 

Right On! Little Brother.

Oh, I don't know you, but it is interesting to see the same 17-year-old musings that took place when I was that age back, back, ... uh, coulda been the Pleistocene, not sure.

I've got a grandson ur age - he claims to have gotten some already. Not sure and didn't grill him on it but it is a distinct possibility these days. Your development seems to be right on time and if you get an opportunity go for it.

I was about 18 when I got my first piece of ass and it was bought in a Mexican border town for $3. Things were not yet liberated in the early '60s and most of us teen boys couldn't get sex with the teen girls because of that myth of chastity and savin' it till marriage. (At 20, in the Air Force, I had sex with a 17-year-old Moslem girl in Turkiye that I was really in love with.)

Here's a fact I've learned over the years and a lot of divorced people have to admit. There isn't that "ONE SPECIAL PERSON." You may find one special person but there are infinite possibilities out there and a lot of them can be one nite stands and enjoyable. I have made love to many ppl and actually loved them for the moment that we shared. Oxycontin? IDK, could be some primitive breeding chemistry that makes us act instinctively, but it could also be a higher thought of this is another person whom I am having ultimate physical intimacy with - a brief moment of intense sharing.

 

Shale.. you're my hero

I'm only 17 too and haven't had sex either.. but I'm not too good at trying to score a gf, but I'm trying.. and if I don't have one by the time I'm 18 then hell.. i'll buy some sex

Great that you pointed that out.. I agree with that completely.. theres different combinations of people that will get along better than others, but theres no "perfect match" per se in my opinion.