Anal Masturbation Habit

Ok, here is the problem:


for a few years I have practised anal masturbation on a regular basis.
It feels really good and so on, but afterwards I feel like fucking trash emotionally.
Like REALLY bad. It's a combination of shame,anger,frustration etc.
Probably Because I am a heterosexual and a masculine type of person.
The whole thing is conflicting with my internal self, but when the lust is there, i seem to forget who I am.

I have been fascinated by females since childhood, and especially the ass. and i guess that's how i discovered my own ass. I think I have an ass fetish.

I managed to leave this crap out for two years, but the addiction wasn't as strong as it is today.


how can i break this habit forever?


any similar stories?

Female opinoins?


Thanks.

 

as long as your not screwing yourself with broken glass... I wouldnt worry about it too much... if your doing it to the point of damage? well youll have to see a ass doctor to or a shrink I mean theyll have to shrink it for you....JOKES aside its ok to play with your butt as long as your not hurting yourself... everyone does it... even if they say they dont.. chill out.. youll be ok...

 

Why would you feel bad about it? If it feels good, then have fun! That doesn't make you gay.

 

I can relate to your feeling. I am married to a wonderfull wife. Anal stuff just isn't her ball-game. But I like it - and have always done - from early teen years.

So I have invested in dildos and play around with them when I feel the need for a good ramming. However, my wife does not know about this! And I have always felt kinda different on this matter since my friends clearly distances them selfs from anal play.

I, too, am convincingly not gay - I love women. Especially tits, and does not have any fantasies about men - or even having my wife fucking my ass (strap-on style). The anal play is my thing - and I do it to myself - as some sort of masturbation. Even though I have never really experienced orgasms from my prostate and like the feeling of being filled and the in and out movement more than massaging my prostate.

 

yeah crunch5596 you are right about the "being different issue"
I can totally relate to that.
I don't want to be some kind of freak who needs his ass stuffed at any time...
for me, this isn't a gay issue....I am straight.
Just need some help to totally get over this!

It's more like a bad habit, and I feel that it could physically harm me (bigger and bigger objects etc.)
Afterwards my erection is weakened.(don't know if it's mental or physical)
Obviously i feel a little wierd.
and so on.....could write a huge whine list.

Anyone out there who's been practising this in the past, but got over it?

All kinds of perspectives are appriciated.

 

It's okay to play with your ass! Just don't put anything too big up there. When I masturbate, I always let my fingers travel over there. I never let them go inside though, just manipulate the opening.

 

I do NOT want to get over it - I don't think that U want that! I wish, though, that I had the balls to tell my wife about it - but I am too afraid of her reaction (she is a little up tight).

But I enjoy it. I have, however, never practised anal sex on a girl - that maybe some of the reason for doing it on myself. And my wife won't let me do her behind - a finger is by far enough, so ...

Regarding toy size: Year, don't get too large items up there. I have a good time with the large "Real Cock". It is about 2" thick and 8" long. Cant take the whole shaft, but it has a tremendous feel when it slides in and out. Recommendable. I have recently tried a larger dong and I am stille recovering!! Even though, the feeling of being totally filled out was good.

My opinion: Allow yourself to enjoy - you are not the only one feeling good about it. And hey, do we need to tell anyone. I dont tell about my regular masturbation, so why this ...

 

I just realize that there seems to be more straight guys that masturbate analy than gay not saying gay guys don't but maybe since there seems to be just as much hetero anal masturbation as there is gay... then maybe sexual preferance has noting to do with it

think of it this way gay men like to touch themselves dose that mean if a hetero man does it he's secretly gay

not to mention that if everman went out and tried it than I don't think it would be an issue cause 80% of men (if you take homophobia out of the equation) would love it and the rest would just say they do to fit in

maybe one day we all will realize that what we se as so taboo really isn't any worse than saying hi to someone


for referance I am 17, straight, I love analysis sex without remorse and I am gonna change the world we live in

 

I am a male and I love anal masturbation. I own(ed) two buttplugs and a dildo which is 1 3/4" wide and 8" long. I love to insert the buttplug and walk around with it in all day and then in the evening take it out and fuck myself with the dildo, it feels incredible. Normally I am really clean inside, but this time I pulled the dildo out for a moment and noticed it was entirely covered in poop. I was extremely horny though, so I continued my fun not even caring about the mess I was making, and enjoyed it for many moments more until I came-huge amounts. Well i threw the buttplug and dildo in the trash and went to shower, since my hand and butt area had poop all over, and the trash was taken out. And now my sex toys are at the dump, covered in mess. I am going to buy new toys though!!!

 

Aww, no one has replied... are ya'll grossed out?

 

I'm a chick, and I hate how modern society has made guys feel like if they do anything with their ass they're somehow gay. Your a guy, you like women, and it feels good to you, yea? Nothing wrong with it! Anal masturbation doesnt compromise your masculinity at all.

Ive asked my guy to try it before just to see if hed like it, so if it would for some reason make him gay, why would i bring it up?

Now, go play with your asshole.. (and feel good about it!)

 

Damn straight, there is no way it makes you gay, unless it happens to be that there is a real penis in your ass and your a guy. Playing with your ass by yourself or with a girl in any way is amazing!

 

I just did it 5 minutes ago. Sometimes just rub my anus with my left hand and jack off with the right, and sometimes put a small object up my ass while jackin off.
When I first did it I felt the same way as you described yourself but now I think its awesome and always feelin good after doin it.

 

I did it earlier today too. There is nothing better than the feeling of cumming with the help of anal stimulation. I think I have that bad habit you mentioned. I wish I could just give it up cold turkey but it's only a matter of time before I find my favorite dildo right back inside working me over. I have thought that I may have developed a mild sexual addiction or compulsion in this area. I wish I could stop, and not because of gay/straight issues. I'm bi and I'm fine with that. I just don't want to get hurt or suffer any long term physical effects. What effects you may or may not suffer seems to depend on what article you read. Some say its bad, and some say with care it won't cause any issues. Just stopping would fix it. I just don't know how.

 

well yeah.

This isn't a gay issue for me...
I think the reason it makes me feel so incredibly bad is because I associate it with being a wierdo....like a creep or whatnot
I quit for two weeks and it felt great!

Assplay is a huge turnon and i just can't deny that...
but, Playing with a beautiful female is such a rewarding experience!

So now I am going to pick up a hot girl with the same "preference"

How do you guys spot the girls who likes it up the ass?; ))


anyway thanx for feedback, made me feel better!

 

Just go up to her and say Hey, do you like it up the ass? Girls love that. lol

Southern, Australian and Catholic girls take it up the ass, too. Everybody knows that.

And I agree with whoever said it's not gay unless it's a dude's penis up your butt.

 

Molly I love your wit

 

it's funny i ran across this topic, random 002. i believe that i have experienced a very similar issue as you. i first started anal play on my own, just out of sheer curiosity, long before i ever lost my virginity to a girl. i am a totally heterosexual guy, always have been always will be, but anal penetration is very arousing and very pleasurable to me, as i believe it is to most men. it has nothing to do with sexual preference, and nothing to do with morality. it's very simply anatomy.

where i really feel i might relate to you is in that feeling of it being so dirty and hating myself for doing it yet wanting to do it all the more. i don't so much get that feeling from being penetrated anally as i do from anally penetrating a girl. i had a girlfriend who wanted me to fuck her ass, and after i did it, i felt so horribly piggish and low, yet i really was immeasurably turned on by it. i couldn't help the fact, though, that my head was filled with these feelings of it not being equitable or fair to the girl. i felt like i was a total pig, even though SHE asked me to do it. although despite how bad i felt, i wanted so bad to do it again! but i ended up starting to concern myself so much with the fairness of it, that i'd want her to fuck my ass with a strap on (also something she wanted to try, that i really enjoy too) every time i fuck hers just to be fair. it's really silly, but it's something i had a hard time getting over.

i also have wondered what the difference in feeling of a real penis versus a strap on is, though i have no interest in having gay sex, nor any physical contact with a man. the reason i really wonder is for that whole fairness issue. it's become an obsession, but it all has it's roots in my anal fetish that i love so much yet hate at the same time. so in all honesty, dude, i kinda feel your pain (and pleasure).

 

Just out of curiosity, why don't you stick a finger (or anything else, I assume) in your ass?

If you enjoy the feeling of touching around the opening, why not slide something small in?

 

first off ass fetish! woot woot

You should consider self lucky that you discovered your ass, to many guys are to homophobic to even consider trying it. It feels amazing, dont deprive your self of something you enjoy.