can anyone help me please

hey guys/gals was just wondering why no ones has posted to my threads, i hope in my message that i havent said anything wrong. because i am just a genuine guy looking for a bit of help and support from people that understand where i am coming from. just dont know who the hell i am anymore, i mean its like i know men but trying so hard not to , very depressed, and very unhappy at the monment, so any advice or feedback would be very much helpful to me

 

I don't think it is anything you have said.. people just tend to read alot of the messages at the same time and try to respond to the ones they can. I don't think any insult was intended. And I know what you mean about not knowing who you are.. for 25 years I thoguht women were the only way to go.. you have to try and help yourslef some here because if you do not know who you are yet then all the advice in the world is just going to confuse you more.. you need to sit down with yourself and find out what you really want.. otherwise you just going to continue to float in the void with no hope of being happy.

 

so you we were once staright did u say

 

Most of us were raised straight.

It is a rare child in most societies that is given the option to express their sexual orientation outside of the heterosexual norm.

Most of us here in the US and UK are just lucky any more not to be hauled off to jail for "crimes against nature."

I would say be discrete if you live in a homophobic culture (move to a more tolerant one if you can).

Explore your feelings and explore with some guys. There are sensitive guys who would do a young man gently.

Remember, despite what shit the majority might want to feed you, you are not a pervert for loving a man.

 

this is the thing, i dont know if i am gay, i mean would i actually experiment with a man, would i go through with it if it came down to it, what age did u realise u were gay if you dont mind me asking

 

I love you

 

I Love You Too....(big cyber hug)...




Cheers Glen...

 

I had my first homosexual experience at about 24. However, I was getting ideas at age 22 while still in the military. Even as a child I had a fondness for certain men and was in love with a male actor on screen. So I guess it is a process.

It is no big deal to get intimate with a man (but this is as I look back). Don't obsess so much over it, just do it. A little spent sperm, shared sweat, it's over and you can assess then if you really liked it. There are prolly any number of guys available to introduce you.

Also, don't obsess so much over labels. You can love men and be straight. You can love women and be gay. It is called bi, or as I like to call it expanded sexuality. You don't have to lock yourself into a label.

 

Don't obssess over it so much,if you don't try it you'll wish you did and wonder what it would have been like.
I think Shale has got some good advice.if you don't like it you'll know.Don't worry about labels just be yourself.Set yourself on the journey of finding who you are and don't be afraid.

 

but my girlfriend or ex should i say i am defo not gay, i mean, i mean i have never actauuly relieved myself over gay porn, its like i go on there to check to see my reaction, seriuosly need some help, i know u offered as much information as possible but my head is everywhere