how do you tell if you're not a virgin anymore? a couple days ago, I got really drunk and I ended up going into a room with some guy, and the next thing you know, it's the morning, and i totally blacked out. so I don't know if I'm still a virgin or not. And I didn't even ask the guy if we did anything because he's going into the military soon. so is there any sign that's definite? also I don't think he used a condom.
tbh, no real way to tell if your hymen was already torn before the incident just ask him, its beter to know and get tested and stuff than not know. and if youre not on bc and he didnt use a pill, you should definitely look into the morning after pill (not sayinig you must take it, saying look into it, see if its apprpriate for you)
Might have been some pain or tenderness. But Allonym is right and there is no sure fire way to tell. In the future don't get so drunk that you blackout. You are putting yourself in danger by drinking that much. Not just from alcohol poisoning, but also sexual abuse. Why in the hell would you jeopardize your own safety and well being? Sorry, but 17 and blacking out drunk is a BAD mix.
um yeah I guess I didn't do anything with him. which is good.And obviously i'm not pregnant, which is great, next time I'll not drink so much.
Not all women are born with a hymen and they can be broken other ways, some people report NO pain after sex for the first time (myself) and I think it would be best that you ask him.
so????? and u said, going in soon besides it dont matter if jhes going in the army or to the moon, u desserve to know for sure if your a virgin or not or should be worried bout pregnancy when u woke up in the morn...were u dressed? if ya were completely dressed ya probly are still a virgin..but thats not even for sure u gotta ask & definately dont drink
oh well yeah I'll ask him, but it's weird and the whole drinking thing is done for now, the only reason I did it is because I was presured and like if you don't drink then you'll be really bored, you know you won't have fun, and that was by my sister I don't think she likes me much
fuck that... drinking is for idiots whats so fun about being an idiot? boredom however if you find an old old new england jouranal of pharmocology or any really decent herbology book and look up cures for boredom, marijuana comes up often and doesnt cloud your judgment and make you black out in strangers beds you'll have peer pressure to drink to do drugs and yes to have sex but you alone can decoide to give in or stick to your priniples ofcourse, if your not careful, trust the wrong poerson or are incapasitated and unable to decide rationaly you may give up your abilty to prevent bad things from happening and may have your virginity taken unwillingly dont let that happen be smart, dont go around taking risks and if u think something happened then be sure to find out
oh well he was in the army but I don't know what happened, and yeah I was dressed and woke up on the couch, b ut I'm not pregnant for sure, but I asked him and we didn't do anything
Fuck, I wouldn't believe him, cause if he did anything when you were passed out and he did anything, he would go to jail. I'd go to the doctor and ask if it looked like your hymen was torn roughly or anything. (Yes I know thats not 100%, but it sounds mental that you would just believe him)
I echo what Sarah says. You wanna check and see if your hymen (the flap of skin covering your vagina) is still intact. I don't wanna sound insulting, but some (disgraces of) men DO lie to cover their tracks and don't care if it hurts you, so it'd be dumb to just believe him, IMO. Also, did you wake up with any aches or anything in your vaginal/ass area? I know you'd probably catch wind of something like that, but sometimes, you just wake up hurting. I'd say if your hymen got torn and you woke up hurting, there's a very, very good chance he did have sex with you. Anyways, hope my 0.02 on the matter helps.
Yeah, that doesn't matter. Fact. I'm not trying to compare this guy to a terrorist, but Timothy McVeigh served in the armed forces and look what he ended up doing. Hell, a lot more people who turned out to be bad apples were in the army. The woman who was in charge of a POW camp in Iraq I believe.forced prisoners to have sex with one another and she posed with the naked POWs (on top of other things like horrible living conditions etc.). She was in the army and was a right bitch to boot. Again, not trying to draw any comparisons.....all I'm saying is that who's to tell if you hooked up with a bad person?
Wow, hope you learned a lesson Thats just scary to think about, and im a guy I agree with soaringeagle I drink but i seriously hate it (well not it in general but getting really really drunk where u are a idiot), But i seen fucked up stuff and had to go threw fucked up things casue my whole family drinks way to much and seen friends do the dumbest things, Like fall off a bridge Ill just say he was dam lucky I wasnt piss drunk like everyone else
