so a few nights ago I posted a thread about being attracted to a guy and not being able to make the first move, well last night we went out an had a few drinks... needless to say one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together....could sex on the first night harm the chances of a future relationship? Normally I wouldn't do that but the drinks kinda got to me : p but yeah, do you think I have blown my chances with this guy by sleeping with him?
He'll probably still want to hang out with you, but he might not respect you anymore. The next time you hang out, try not to have sex or drink too much, you might be able to show him you have another side to you, if he's still interested.
totaly depends possibly ya mightve maybe ya didnt alcahols never a good thing when ya tryin to do the right thing tho.. call him up and talk, but dont let it be like a booty call thing.. if ya can talk a couple hours on the phone withiut rushin over for a repeat then theres a chance he'll like ya...
Yes. I may not speak for every guy out there but for me it totally would ruin the chances of me ever wanting a serious relationship with the female. And it has. But believe it or not, I've also turned down sex on the first night with a girl because I wanted a relationship with her & I knew that if we slept together on the first night, I'd want nothing else to do with her other than have a sexual relationship. Sometimes that's not all a guy wants. And sometimes that's all a guy wants. Especially when she puts out the first night.
My buddy and I were out fishing one day when I looked at him and said, you know, I really need some pussy. He made a phone call. She came over a couple days later. Moved in a month later and we were married a couple years after that. 2 kids, house, dogs, cats, the whole nine yards. Other broads I fucked and left. So it all depends! If you really like him, pursue it. But if not, move on to the next one!
okay, well we have known each other since january and hung out and been out before without sleeping together/kissing/anything at all, and then it just happened, it wasnt like I hadn't known him, weve been friends for a while...I am not really sure if that changes anything or not
ummm.... TALK to him this is one of thsoe things where it totally depends on the two people involved. there is no standard. so just go talk to him, see how it plays out, see whats up, communicate with -him-
