I'm ready for sex - is she?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Rodney823, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. Rodney823

    Rodney823 Member

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    My girlfriend and I are both virgins at 20 years old. Our six month is coming up, and I'm ready to lose it, I just feel it, its the right time. I love her with all my heart and I really would never regret losing it to her. We're so close, I'm sure she feels similar, but I have no idea how to bring it up or talk to her about it. Its a big deal, whether people will understand this or not, because both of us saved ourselves for a reason. Any help is appreciated
     
  2. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    umm why havent ya asked her?
    ya ask 1000 strangers online but ya cant ask the 1 ya love?

    just tell her how ya feel tell her ya really think shes the 1 for you and you want herto bhe your 1st and ask her how she feels

    dont tell her ya asked 1000 strangers before u asked her..lol
     
  3. pushit

    pushit One jive Motha Fucka

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    Just be open with her, thats all there is to it in my book. The best relationship I ever had was the most open relationship I've had.
     
  4. pushit

    pushit One jive Motha Fucka

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    Off topic but, why the hell are you ALWAYS before me? You speedy poster you!
     
  5. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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    Openness -about your feelings especially- is important in a relationship.
    You love her she is the one you should be talking to about it.
    I understand you feel your virginity is an important thing-
    but It doesn't hurt to talk about it.
     
  6. Rodney823

    Rodney823 Member

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    We're very open...sometimes too open, we talk so much and we know everything about each other. It's just this one thing that I'm hesitant to talk to her about because I dont know if she's ready or not
     
  7. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Free

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    Just ask her.
     
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