Hello, I am an active bottom and I never had issues with my hole after having sex. I am 39 years old and I met a stud with the biggest cock I ever seen (know blackzilla?) After meeting with him for few times I noticed my hole is permanet dilated (does not completely closes) and I am starting to get concerned about it. I regular do Kegel exercises with no improvements and when I have sex with other men they notice my hole is not tight. Anybody with similar experience? Do I have to stop having sex with this stud? Is this age related issue? Any help, tips, recommendations are appreciated Thanks,
I love anal sex too and have used many sized dildos on myself for many years. If I give myself alot of anal masterbation with a small dildo my hole opens to the biggest size I have ever had in me it seems to have a memory so to speak. I have noticed if I use the smaller ones and less frequently my hole starts to close up and get tighter. I know this would be hard as you have to please your man and be there for him when he wants you. I have read a few peoples concerns as they have gotten older and wished they had kept to a smaller size in them as they have problems now in later life. Maybe less frequent bottoming with this guy and see if this gives your hole a chance to close if not you may have to stop if you don't want problems when you are older.
Hmmm, never thought this could become a problem. I've heard the anus will always go back to its normal state which is airtight. Of course, it gets easier to take a larger item the more you work it. I have noticed myself that I don't need a "whole" lot of work anymore like I used to when I begin to penetrate myself. Just some lube & away I go. Just in the past year, I noticed that the thicker toys are really the only ones that can please me but I haven't noticed that my hole has gotten any looser. Best of luck to you.
