HIV you would what? A: Still date guys/ have relationships with guys and try not to have sex B: Remove yourself from dating and relationship scene C: Still try to have sex with condom use and not even bother to tell the guy of your HIV D: Other (explain) If you picked A, would you tell the guy you got HIV upfront or wait till just before things get heated up between you two? Guys, flip the question around: What would you pick?
B. I know how I would feel if I was into a lady and she told me she had HIV, I would be crushed. That would totally be immoral to me to do that to someone.
thats really tough, but i would pick A.... and once things got more heated up and serious between the two of you, i would break the news.. however, it could only be asking for heartache.. buy a dildo.
I'd be totally up front with the person..."Look, I have HIV..." If they were upset...fuck it...they didn't and wouldn't love me anyway...*shrugs* if they don't like it...or can't handle it...fuck it.
B. i couldnt get in a relationship again for many reasons. i wouldnt want to risk transmitting it, and i wouldnt want to put someone through the pain of losing their partner.