I aint never gonna fall in love again...

cuz they'll break you in two... theres nothin you can do and i'm unpluggin my phone as soon as i get home......


seriously though.. ladies.. help a guy out... i really dunno what to do or think anymore... im so fuckin confused its not even funny...

so this girl i've been diggin on for sometime.. i dunno what to do.. i've asked before... shes says shes not lookin for a relationship... but seriously we hang out all the time.. she dont go places sometimes unless im goin there... we always take smoke breaks together.. 2 different job but we work next door to each other... we hold onto each other... and kiss.. but i really dont know.. she says she dont want a relationship... i dont get it.. im confused.. i dunno if shes putting up some sort of like sheild to like not get hurt or what the fuck...


sorry for rambling..

 

She wants to be friends with benefits. If youre not comfortable with that, then just be her friend, and give her space. I know what you mean about the girl, since that is basically me. You act like just really good buds when theres others around, but when youre alone, she gets more intimate and touchy no? she has been hurt, and rather not put herself in a situation where it might happen again. depends how bad it is, and theres no way to know unless you ask her why, but that might opn up a can of worms that she doesnt want opened. DONOT PUSH HER. that is the fastest way to make her run away. good luck man.

 

Just talk to her about it, try to see what is going on, if she justs wants to be a really really good friend, then let her.

 

in high school i got out of a relationship, and became friends with benefits to one person, not wanting to be BF and GF, and it was fine. then i wanted to actually have a relationship, and he balked. I left for the navy. almost married some asshole. and came home. he was willing to give me a chance, and now we are married with a toddler.

So, Be friends, or friends with benefits, but wait for her to ask for the relationship, and make sure you know what to say when she does. just wait for it, and it will happen, but do borderline dating things,like movies or eating out, but in clever places, or giv her clever gifts. girls love that kind of stuff. as long as it isnt blatant relationship stuff it should fly.

 

wow, that seriously sounds EXACTLY like what i'm going through right now.
the guy i like doesn't want a relationship, but we act like couples do.. we smoke together, we're together every single day, we never fight.. but he doesn't want a relationship

he said he was just in a serious relationship, and he's not ready to be in another relationship.. so maybe your girl just got out of a serious one, too, and is not ready for a relationship.

 

sounds like you already have a relationship, now fuck her

 

what he said^