i just dont seem to be able to orgasm during sex, i dont know why because i have no trouble when i'm by myself. My boyfriend feels bad and that he's disappointing me and i keep telling him its ok, because i enjoy sex either way. But i would like to orgasm during sex, so can anyone please give me some ideas on what might help?
Only about 25-30% of females can get an orgasm from intercourse alone. Another 25% can get an orgasm with manual stimulation and intercourse together, and about 25% can orgasm from masturbation alone. About 20% seldom or never have orgasms. Use a lot of foreplay (on you) before you have intercourse, and use a vibrator on your clitoris, or manual stimulation by you or him on it, while you have intercourse. PM me for further help.
I think you are able to have clitoral orgasms but not able to have vaginal ones. I think so because my wife had the same problem. She increased her ability to orgasm by Sentia pills and by diets. Now she orgasm through intercourse very often.
many women have the same probs theres alot you can do possitionaly that can help as well simplest answer would be to stimulate yoiurself or have him while leaning back on top other things can help as well, a pillow under the hips, lifting u off tyhe bed theres positions to help with g spot stimulation way way too often though the real issue is with rythem and intencity and jot matching excitement levels hed be off to the races while u warm up..or hed be pullin on the breaks when should be chargin on home theres alot of factors that can be involved including your own personal blockages
yeah, we've tried a few positions, the pillow thing, and the lifting off the bed as well as doggystyle, which helps, but not enough i guess. maybe the problem is he's not lasting long enough? it usually takes me half an hour by myself and he lasts about 20
Hey Bandanagirl, I can definitely vouch for heaps of foreplay! If I'm not fully turned on and positively aching for it by the time he starts pounding then I find it really hard to orgasm during regular intercourse alone. Make sure the two of you spend plenty of time doing whatever gets you most horny before actual sex. You might like to try getting your partner to stimulate you manually *almost* to orgasm a couple of times and then finally let you come while having sex. The psychological aspect is huge too, so make sure if you do try the 'almost coming and then not' approach, that you both communicate so that when you do start to come you don't think 'oh god, he's going to stop any second!!' Good luck
thats a big thing hes not lasting long enough he needs to try to hold back, keep going untill you cum and not allow himself to untill you do or with you like they said above you can try getting close before you even begin intercourse but he should try his hardest to hold back untill your completely satisfied does hree know your having probs? try this for the next week, foreplay foreplay foreplay sex (having him try hard to wait till u cum till he does) if he cums 1st pull out foreplay continues (1st time mostly on u 2nd time both till hes excited again) repeat, the 2nd time around he should hopefuly not cum as fast and by the tim,e he does again you will a few times try that a week and then pm me if no luck theres some more slightly awkward but powerful possitions and techniques u can try if your not cumming together though offten its a mismatched rythem and excitement level, hes rushing ahead leavin u behind
alright, i shall try that next time, thank u very much for the help and i'll pm u and ask questions if that still doesnt work, but thanks again
Have you tried masturbating in front of him to get you warmed up? You last 30 minutes and he lasts 20...you might need a headstart. Once it happens the pressure will be off of both of you and it will get easier. Have you tried using a toy while he is inside of you? Have him get on his knees and hold your legs as he penetrates you. This position will give you (and him) easy access to your clit during intercourse. Have fun.....you will get there.
If you work are you tired after work ? How do you feel about your body in front of your partner ? Ask yourself have you been sexually abused ? Are you under any kind of stress ? Do you mentally connect ? I think I'm a very sensitive emotional kind of guy, education, care and a genuine wanting to love that other person is important. The most intense orgasm that I experienced with a 22 year old we had some strange kind of rapport, that i must say is quite rare.
Well she excluded greasy food and took different herbs. She also didn't eat before sex. But I saw the results only after she had a course of Sentia. She orgasms rather deeply now. I really see that she is in perfect bliss.
