Sexual Desire CONFUSED

So everytime I think about dating a guy I'm interested in I get really excited, especially if he is also interested in me but for a while now whenever I think about giving a guy a hand job or having sex with someone I just can't see myself doing it. I haven't had sex before and have only given hand jobs. I can see myself actually having sex with my ex but whenever I think about it with anyone else it just doesn't work. It's not like I don't want to have sex or that I still love my ex but I can't see myself with those guys. It has been every guy I've been interested in since my last ex (about a year ago). I'm not sure if this is because I might be bi or a lesbian but I still think I like guys. What's weird is I could see myself fingering a girl or even eating someone out but when I think about blowing a guy it grosses me out. Any thoughts?

 

We all have our differences. I mean I can see myself with either or.. its partially about what your interested in.. and also can be some about how you have been raised and taught. Social engineering and all. And I would not worry about it if you can see yourself eating someone out but not giving a blowjob.. there are straight girls I know who cannot bring themselves to give a blowjob just because to them it is something they find anappealing. So I would not account that as being.. 'Oh you don't want to give head.. you must be a closet lesbian.' You just have your sexual preferences.