Are there any other married guys or gals who are doing a little bi experimentation? My wife and I are both exploring some bi options with some special close friends. It's cool because it is without hangups and open. It's another life experience that we both wanted to explore. We wanted to explore it openly and without sneaking around. Both of us were "curious", so to speak. After a long talk, we thought it would a good life experience. How about you? Ever think about it?
I have thought about it several time but she is to hung up about it. The funny part it is me that wants to do it with another guy. She could do it with another woman if she wanted to but that wouldn't be part of the deal.
Topper, my personal experience is that bisex within a relationship and with friends on top of it, is pretty risky. In my case, it tended to be most easy when both partners do it their own way, without the other one being involved, and with total strangers. The experiments you suggest can really ruin your relation and friendships quite easily. So I would advice against trying things out with friends. You don't want to lose both your wife and your friends. If you do it with total strangers, you can at best lose the friendship of the stranger, which is no big deal.
Thought about it, but he says no way! So, unless something happens that we end up splitting up, I'll have to just wonder about things like that. I'm definitely open to the experience, but with who is the question...
I wouldn't mind experimenting but I couldn't do it with friends or anybody I know, it would have to be with strangers...
I am definitly curious, and i think my boyfriend would be okay with it. He says he would but he says he'd be worried too. I think I would rather try it with strangers too!
Hey guys, I'm practically married (8-year long relationship), but I've been thinking about broaching this subject with my bf. He knows I've been with chicks before we met, but we never talk about it. Does anyone have any advice on how to start the conversation? How did you bring up the issue with your partners and spouses? What was their reaction?
A woman that is bi is a wonderful thing. I've known more than a few and it has resulted in some wonderful nights.
