im 19 years old ..i live with my mom..i want to get married to my boyfriend( we are secretly engaged) i guess she will never except it..she wants me to tell her the truth but she cant even handle it...now we are getting an apartment , which will be ready in one month..how am i going to break the news to her? now ? or later? helpppp
doesnt matter when ya break the news as long as ya do it at the best time possible..and be honnest..and strong conviction is key if your sure this is right for ya then stand up for whats right.. give em a few weeks to get used to the idea, but not so much time that if it explodes into a scene ya cant camp out somewhere till its ready..lol remember though they dont have to approve listen to them..take it all into concideration.. but in the end you cant let anyone hold ya back from doin what u wanna do be careful though livin together can be a relationship killer if your not 100% compatible good luck
you say, "i live with my mom" wheres your dad? I mention this because your mom may fear being alone or losing you... Just some issues to be in tune with. Now, 19? secretly engaged? I'm not hinting that your not ready however... living with someone is a big step... bills and lifes responsibilities can stress the strongest of bonds... Secretly engaged... why is it secret? you should be thrilled and wanting to tell family and friends. If your sure she isn't going to take it well... why are the reasons? are they valid? She should be supportive... she might even have some good advice once you tell her.
well my dad passed away when i was younger... but now she lives with my step dad, my hald brother, and my step brother....so its not like she going to be alone... and i know this is what i really want ./... and its what he wants also...the reason why she doesnt approve is because of being young ...but if were married , its not like were gonan have kids now...
