Well I am a 20 y/o virgin in college. I never bothered pursuing a girl and was always nervous about sex because I knew I would c*m FAST the first time. But I read some tips on here for guys to extend their time, and one of them said think of baseball. So I took that and twisted it more. Now if I feel like I am getting a little too excited I think about circuit analysis problems (whatever works) and it really takes my mind off of my member. I always thought I would be control-less in sex and would cum asap without me being to stop it. It sounds rediculous but now I have a whole new level of confidence and I am now ready and comfortable just because I realized taking your mind off the fun really works. Also I smoke multiple times a day and I heard smoking a bowl before sex helps prolong ejaculation. Finding girls won't be a problem. Not to sound cocky but I am a good looking guy with a good personality in college, and I am first in my major. So ladies and gentlemen help this newbie out by giving me some tips for sex. I am sure the first time won't be amazing. But I was thinking after I cum I would start going down on her and play with her clit for 5-10 minutes until I am ready to go again. Think that'd be helpful or would she not be comfortable going from sex to oral? It may seem like a dumb question but I am CLUELESS. Thanks a lot everyone
Oh and girls could you tell me what you love done to you? I want to have a head full of knowledge to give me even more confidence because I now realize it's all psychological, and the more confidence the better.
Sex to Oral is fine, I like it. Just make sure there is lots of forplay for her, nothng pisses me off more then a guy who rushes into it.
i am thinking that being 77 years old, and still being a virgin... there may be some disturbances in the force, luke.... or floridaguy19 w/e your name is. quit posting fake ages and tell us the truth or else we wont be able to give you sane advice besides... GET LAID!
Well, even though I'm 14 & a virgin, all I can tell you is for the first time is take it slow and don't try to rush things. Find someone who you feel like you have a lot of chemistry with physically and that you actually like. Most importantly, don't try to force anything, because then you end up like the 40 year old virgin.
Florida guy - check out my thread on premature ejaculation in the Sexual Health Forum in Love and Sex. I point out 10 techniques to stop premature ejaculation.
