ok, so i've been dealing with this issue in my head for sometime, i'll get to it, but first i'll give you some back story. So i've only ever had one REAL girlfriend. we were each other's first pretty much everything, which means she was my first hand job and we lost our virginity to each other, however she never gave me head, she tried to, didn't really like it, had issues with it, idk what ever. so anyway, since we were each others we didn't really know what to do durring a HJ when i had to cum. we didn't want to make a mess so i'd just pull my underwear up when i had to cum...don't know how common that really is... so anyway, what i'm wondering it, what should i do when i'm actually cumming? should i have something handy? i know if she's not opposed i can cum on her, but...not all girls are into that. so what do you guys do? or girls what do you do with your guys?
Hey Dreamer, welcome. Well, unless you're dressed in your Sunday best and running late for a wedding or something, cum all over the place dude! You can come in your/her hand, on your thighs, wherever. And yeah a kleenex handy is probably a good idea. You refer to her in the past tense, you two still together? I guess it depends on how messy you can bear to get. When I was with my first bf I was a little grossed out by bjs and cum, I thought it was messy, but when you're more confident and comfortable with the weird and wonderful things your body does you get used to it. I've acquired quite a taste for it Good luck, I'm sure the guys round here will have some more practical advice for ya.
I don't mean to sound crass here but mate, if she doesn't want to spit or swallow, then just pull her head up and let her finish you off with a hand job. I would say that if you're pulling up your dacks when you're about to blow, then you could be ruining the true sensation of cumming because your mind is elsewhere! (I hope this makes sense) Blow on your own stomach, its not like there is gonna be galons of it. Clean your gut off with a kleenex (as spinningtop recomended) and your done.
instead of messing your shorts, which is gross by the way. get some flavored condoms and she can suck you off and you can cum and the cum will be it the resevore tip and give you a added sensation. if she still feels like playing, since your ideas of oral sex must mean achieve orgasm and quit. edit....hand jobs... for suck off...
wow, i guess some of you didn't read the whole thing, cause i've never had a blow job, just hand jobs, she had issues with it, long story. and yes i refer to her in the past because we are currently broken up.
Correct me if I am wrong, but was your question "What should I do when I am cumming and what do you guys do?"
Um, I thought condoms made it not feel as good? The pulling-your-underwear-up plan does sound pretty terrible. When I was of handjob age, I always kept a t-shirt around specifically to catch it in. (It was, in case anyone was wondering, a Jesus Camp t-shirt that I found at a thrift shop. I thought it was funny. Oh shut up, I was like 14. Like you had a sophisticated sense of humor at 14.) The main thing is, if a girl's giving you a handjob she understands what the consequences will be (i.e. sperm), so you should be able to say something along the lines of "I'm about to cum, is there something handy?" Kleenex can work; a t-shirt will work better. (Because Kleenex aren't that tough, and I've totally had a shot bust right through it and drip on my shirt anyway, and then...well, then I had cum on my shirt, which is difficult to explain.) I've totally had a guy ask "I'm about to cum and I don't want to make a mess, will you put your mouth on it?" which is a very good way for them to kindof sneak their way into a blowjob. (Because what happens there is it turns out they're not actually as close to cumming as they thought / said they were, and woops! Now I'm giving a blowjob. Sneaky boys.) You might as well try that. I didn't actually mind. My advice: 1. Try for the mouth; nothing ventured, nothing gained. 2. Keep an old t-shirt handy.
would she let you cum on her boobs ? if you dont ask/communicate you will never know what she prefers, and this will hold you back sexually maybe she`d like to see you shoot your load on your stomach or chest- it seems a shame to have her get you all the way to ejaculation, then missing out on seeing the actual event because you have pulled your undies over it. or whats wrong with saying something like `oh baby, i`d love to shoot it all over those lovely titties- is that ok ?` just make sure that after the event, you tell her how much you enjoyed it and how much it turned you on that she let you cum on her tits or whatever- it will give her confidence to try new things. you could always make a joke of it and tell her that her actions will have certain consequences, that you need to devise a plan to cope with the residue. if all else fails, just stand up, shoot it over her face and say in a fake apologetic tone ` oops, so sorry, i didnt mean to do that- but wow it gave me a real buzz to see you with your face covered in my man-goo` oh, and molly.... you post cracked me up...... "I'm about to cum and I don't want to make a mess, will you put your mouth on it?"..rofl
