How do you tell your bf/gf ways to improve their technique when they give you oral? Like how do you tell them how to do it without offending them and making them feel like their own technique isnt very good? Or is it best to let the guy/girl work out what you like for themselves. please reply
well i have a very open communication with my current GF and i just tell her how and what i like and she does it, but i would recomend during oral try moving her head or trying to control her movment as she does it and she will catch on really soon as to what u like. everyone is different so she shouldnt expect every little trick to work on every guy. but i would just recomend whispering to her softly "try this" or "can u do this" its more about ur own confidence as to ask. same princible to chatting to girls in bars pubs clubs etc all how much confidence and how u word it
my advice would be, compliment what she does that you like at the time she does it.. "oh baby just like that" or "oohhhh I like it just like that" Shes doing it to please you... or your doing it to please her... communication is key... you could try saying "i love when you "*" to me, and can't get it out of my mind... but I'm learning I like certain ways and methods better then others, would you like for me to share my desires with you?... and then you can show me what you like" Or... go down on her, and open the lines of communication while doing it for her.... she may return the favor and ask what you like while going down on you. Talk about it... before... during could ruin the mood and afterward may make them feel they weren't good enough... but if you get off from their oral...or couldn't have been that bad! trust me, if they're doing something you don't like they want to know... they just don't want you to be a dick about telling them about it.
Use a moan system, the more noise you make, the more you like it. Then they will remember what works better.
