How long does it generally take you to wack off? Lately its just been wayyyyyyyy to damn fast for me.
It all depends on whether I want a quick fix, or a long enjoyable session. If a quick fix is all that's wanted, then a couple of minutes is all that's needed, but if I want to draw it out, then it can be virtually indefinitely - just taking it slow & easy until I recognise the tinglings of an impending orgasm, then hold back - slow down, or stop altogether. Sometimes I'll draw it out so much that I don't even reach the orgasm at all - after all, the orgasm is only the few seconds culmination - the overall pleasure from masturbation can be so much more in the longer term - and, what's more, you don't even need a full erection to enjoy it - in fact I often find the semi-flaccid / rubbery state to be more sensitive to stimulation. I remember the very first time I had sex, when I started off hammering away, under the misapprehension that sex had to be, logically speaking anyway, no different to masturbation, with the vagina in place of the hand, and would have to be stimulated at the same pace. Within a matter of seconds my partner corrected me on that point by screaming out for me to take it easy. I immediately held back to as slow a pace as I could manage & soon discovered that this resulted in getting to fully savour each stroke for much longer. Now, you might be thinking 'what has this sexual encounter got to do with masturbation?'. Well, after having been through that experience, no surprisingly my subsequent masturbation sessions started to rely heavily on reliving the experience in my fantasies & consequentally slowing the stroking rate accordingly, which also had the side effect of getting me to more fully appreciate how to increase the pleasure levels of the actual act of masturbation, whereas previously it had simply been a matter of being a means to an end of reaching the orgasm. Therein lies the difference between enjoying masturbation for the sake of an orgasm, or enjoying masturbation for the sake of enjoying masturbation.
Like the above poster,depends on how long I want it to take or how much time I have. If I'm horny but I'm in a hurry I can crank one out in less than ten minutes. But if I'm watching porn,I definitely want to take my time & catch the majority of the movie & not want to finish after just watching the first scene. Maybe a good 30 minutes?
