Hey guys. Im kinda low right now and I guess I was hoping for a self esteem booster. But I don't want anyone to say yes just because they feel sorry for me. I want honest answers. Okay, so. Im 18. I go to college but Im withdrawing with a 3.0 average because my depression and suicidal thoughts are hitting me way too hard to continue at this time. Im hoping I get better so I can go back to school. So other things about me are that I like to run, play piano and videogames, read books and ski. I have faults like being sad a lot and being horny a lot too. I might just be horny a lot because Im 18 and I'm a virgin that never kissed a girl before. So yeah, honest opinion, even if it hurts. I look like this: http://photos-h.ak.************/photos-ak-sf2p/v71/49/48/595381544/n595381544_60399_7139.jpg
nope. mostly because a)im not single and b) youre younger than me by enough that itd feel awkward for me get some counselling and work on that depression/suicidal thoughts thing before you start stressing about relationships. loving yourself makes it a whole lot easier for someone else to love you too
Awww, i totally would. You seem really sweet and wonderful and cute I'm a sad girl, and sad girls like sad boys. I hope you find your sad girl soon, feel better
Hmmm Change haircut, get a suit on, put a red rose on your vest, and the girls will drop on your feet. I can clearly see, you have the nature. Just finish it.
College can be a stressful time for 18 year olds - away from home for the first time, trying to deal with your sexual coming of age, and trying to meet new people. You should get some psychiatric counseling - if your depression is clinical, medication prescribed by the psychiatrist can be very helpful in eliminating your depression and suicidal thoughts. Don't wait - do it now. And be honest with your parents about how much you are hurting inside. They will be sympathetic, I am sure.
fuck that medical advice antidepressants generaly make suicidal thopughts worse but definately work on the depression ignore any1 who tells ya to change yourself thats just dumb i woiuldnt date ya cause dont like guys (even tho u seemed to ask guys opinions..lol) but yea alotta girls would like ya..if u likje yourself
Unfortunately, my computer is stupid so I can't see your picture. However, based on your description I totally would. I don't normally go for people that are exactly like me, but maybe that could be cool. I've had experience with HEAVY-DUTY depression before and if I had to do things over, I would not have waited six years for it to stop on its own. One thing that I find that helps is meditation and then, a lot of times, you have to actively go out and look for positivity in the world. I understand how, right off, you're thinking: "What the hell is this heffa talkin' about? There is no positivity. The world sucks and that's the end of that discussion. Moving on." But seriously, even though this whole happiness thing is a new development for me, I found that finding the inner strength to actually go out and look for happy things really helped boost my esteem to the point where, even if I do feel stressed, it doesn't send me into the bathroom, wondering why my mom threw away the razors. I really hope that helped. *smiles*
I wouldn't be to worried about if girls would date you or not, just because there is a person for everyone. Also the reason you might not be dating anyone is because you could be looking in all the wrong places; ex. if you don't like clubs, you're not going to find a girl you like at a club. Common sense stuff. And I would agree with everyone else saying that if you can't appreciate your self and think your the most desierable man out there then why would a girl take another look? Confindence is the best thing men have going for them. Find something you like to do, it may be hard with the depression and all. See what makes you happy, that will let you be you and hopefuly carry over and give you the confidence you need, and loving yourself, because you are perfectly fine the way you are and don't let anyone tell you any different. Oh and if I knew you more I wouldn't mind going on a date.
rams you obviously have a lot going for you with school and your other interests so for sure there's a woman out there for you. try to find out what it is that's triggering your depression and see if you can't turn that around. there's a clear signal that something in your life isn't right. if you want to meet women you'll have to get your confidence up because it's just too obvious otherwise and someone else said it too, women are attracted to confident guys. you have plenty to be confident about just from what you wrote originally. you just need to remember. .....but then again all that you need might be a wardrobe change, a bow tie perhaps, something bright, maybe yellow?
At least someone who gives me right Realy, women want mpen who have their own style. Boys wearing T-shirt and jeans you can find on every corner of the street. You need do develop the unique person you are from your inside...
Hey, I'm 20/f and I just got my first kiss this year. You would be surprised how many people don't have dating experience at your age. I also deal with depression and recently it has become a lot worse. I almost had to take the semester off, but thankfully I'm still able to hang in there (though I have lost a lot of my drive to succeed in school). I am on anti-depressants and they have helped, though I hope to get off them one day once I can train myself in something like meditation. Its a tough thing.....your mind always racing with thoughts. Lately its gotten worse and the thing I want most is just some peace and quiet.....to just stop thinking. Don't think of being sad or horny as faults! depression is a real issue that is not your fault, so you can't take the blame for it. And you are an 18 year old boy lol, of course you are going to be a walking hormone....don't feel guilty about it. I mean if you talk about sex and being horny with friends, that could overdo it, but don't ever feel guilty about your innate sexuality. You are good looking. You look like you will mature a lot in the face and body over the next couple years...I see a lot of freshman come in looking like you, and they mature a lot very quickly. I think guys have a longer "awkward" period than girls do, though you dont' seem awkward, just like you will be changing a lot in the next couple years. so chin up! you said you like running which is good....I have found that just getting outside and walking helps lift a lot of the weight off my shoulders. running should do the same....along with the added benefit of the "runners high".
