I'm not so much scared of just having anal, it's my boyfriends size... He is rather... very very large. I'm a small girl, and yea. I know this sound ridic, but is there any possible way to make him smaller in size for a while? Or am I doomed?
Yes...lots and lots and lots of lube...before and during. Also...to prepare...he should put just a finger in you at first, then move up in size to a small dildo, etc. When he does enter you...tell him to go slowly, then just not move for a few minutes. During that time while he's just inside you, squeeze on him...contract those muscles, for as long as you can, then release. Then do it again...and again...and again. That will relax the muscles and make it much more pleasurable for you. OH...and something that is vital for me...a good vibrator on the clit.
It seems like I've seen plenty of porn where a small girl fails to take a huge cock all the way with regular sex, but manages to have him go in up to his balls anally. I'm not saying that is typical, or an easy point to get to but limits in one hole may not apply elsewhere. However, if he is a good lover he will take his time and not bury the bone before you are ready for it - if ever. There are plenty of guys with giant cocks who just have to get used to that limit. Of course if his cock is thick like a fire hydrant you may have a whole different problem - no pun intended.
Lots of lube like they said. And make sure that he puts it in slowly at first. If he cares for you he would slow down or take it out if you were saying that it hurts. I never had experience with Anal I just got some advice from my friends.
Lots of lube like they said. After lubing his dick and your asshole make sure he starts by putting it in slowly. If he cares for you he will slow down and/or take it out if you tell him that it hurts. I never had experience with Anal but I got that advice from my experienced friends.
One other thing is most important try very hard not to be scared, and yeah that's very easy to say and not so easly done, but if you dwell on the fact that you are scared you might never relax enough for it. Even with all the lube, lube, in the world if you are not relaxed and comfortable you will tense up and squeeze your anus closed when you you need to open up and push out to be able to accept him. Just love each other take it slow and just try to relax about it, and yes lube lube. Good luck it will be ok. Peace
Just use your common sense. Start off with small things and then work your way up. And plenty of lube.
Use lube, plenty. Always go slow, relax, work your way up, and go at your pace. I usually start with one finger and work up to all four before I use anything else. Most of all, enjoy it.
